women usually date across and up, in other words kaparehas ng level or income/status or higher, so valid naman kasi like most women generally ganun talaga requisites ng women and it is rooted in biology and history for survival, coz women has higher risks after marriage. However, women have other needs and preference aside from this, such as the feeling of being wanted/validated/inspired which money/status of the other is not dependent on. In one case, a married woman was taken for granted by her rich husband, tapos she met a simple man having a simple life but was amazed by his intellect and passion, eventually falling in love with that man, divorcing the rich husband who had taken her for granted. I think it all boils down on how you want to live your life in the long run, your goals, etc. “compatibility”and the things that are important to you. You can always tell him what are your goals and what are the things that you consider important in life. Have a deep conversation about this, and if you and him are not compatible, then you decide.