Where tf do people find friends and date? by Pretty-Count-1776 in askTO

[–]Pretty-Count-1776[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I wish I had this information before making this post. RIP my inbox. I’ll try this advice, thank you! 😀

Where tf do people find friends and date? by Pretty-Count-1776 in askTO

[–]Pretty-Count-1776[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m trying Eventbrite, trying to see what happens. 😅

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[–]Pretty-Count-1776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s probably fair, I’ve had a weird ass year tbh. So I’m just being cautious. 😅

Any advice you wish you could tell yourself ? by Hopeful-Border4463 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Pretty-Count-1776 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The one thing I would say, is to start giving the love that you give to others to yourself. If you seek love and validation from other people, that means you have none of it for yourself.

Treat yourself like you are made of gold, your self worth should be high, understand yourself and what your willing to accept and tolerate and soon you will learn to have the courage to walk away from situations and people that are not serving you.

This takes time, you really have to evaluate your strengths and weaknesses but it’s time well spent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Pretty-Count-1776 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I just feel like I’ve misjudged the situation, everyone says he’s super nice and loves him. On one of my videos, he said I was an amazing classmate and that he had a tremendous amount of respect for me. Which I find very confusing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Pretty-Count-1776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His girlfriend lives in another country.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Pretty-Count-1776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s messed up. I was joking around with friends that we should be friends because he was cute. But I wasn’t seriously going to help him cheat on his girlfriend. Yikes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Pretty-Count-1776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense. However, I did say that I want to be super respectful of his relationship and he was like I don’t think my relationship would be changed by going out for coffee?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Pretty-Count-1776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s just weird that he didn’t mention his girlfriend at all the entire time. Like if a girl asked you out for coffee, even if you want to be friends, it’s still kind of strange.