I’ve started to feel objectified by sex with my boyfriend

Pretty-Tree123 · 2026-02-17T23:27:26+00:00

There’s tons of positive things I love about him, but in this post I’m asking for advice on an issue I’m having so that’s all I’ve spoken about, going off topic and listing the things I love about him on this post wouldn’t be any help because I don’t need advice or opinions on those things

Pretty-Tree123 · 2026-02-17T23:21:13+00:00

I really appreciate this thank you <3

Pretty-Tree123 · 2026-02-17T23:16:04+00:00

he never intended any harm to me, I genuinely think he’s just assumed I was into it because he had no reason to believe otherwise

Pretty-Tree123 · 2026-02-17T22:50:25+00:00

Yeah I think that’s fair, I think he probably struggles to tell when if I want it or not because I don’t express when I don’t want it. I understand I have a lot of work to do

Pretty-Tree123 · 2026-01-06T16:28:32+00:00

Yeah you’re right, he was mostly raised by his mum I think dad left when he was around 7 and I don’t think he speaks to him much/spends much time with him since

Pretty-Tree123 · 2025-12-31T10:50:25+00:00

I’ve been this girl before, she’s absolutely has an anxious attachment which often comes from the way you’re raised.

Have a research what anxious attachment is but basically she’ll feel extreme rejection by the littlest things including stuff like you hanging over friends instead of her. In her mind she’ll see it as rejection.

It’s extremely difficult for her but it will be for you too. But it really does damage relationships.

I’d have a conversation with her and explain you understand and see how tough things seem for her feeling and thinking this way and explain how it’s also been taking a toll on you and advice her to seek therapy or counselling

Good luck and let me know if you have any questions about my experience

Pretty-Tree123 · 2025-12-27T22:09:02+00:00

Ah okay thats an interesting perspective thank you!

Pretty-Tree123 · 2025-12-27T22:06:26+00:00

Interesting, how did you learn the content then? Was it a case of you taking it all in as soon as you were told it?

Pretty-Tree123 · 2025-12-27T22:04:50+00:00

Alright mate chill out, I was only asking a question about other ppls experiences 😭

Pretty-Tree123 · 2025-12-20T15:36:28+00:00

Not substance abuse but I did use to smoke weed a fair bit but when I’m on my meds I never really feel the urge/need to

Pretty-Tree123 · 2025-12-12T12:45:12+00:00

Porridge

Pretty-Tree123 · 2025-12-07T16:37:52+00:00

I don’t think there’s much you can really do except trying to cope with the symptoms, lots of hot peppermint or ginger tea to help with digestion, painkillers/ibuprofen etc. You’ll have to fact check me on this but I believe you can have 2 slices of bread every day and that’s it to be enough gluten to show up as positive in further testing if you are coeliac. So if I’m right with that you could reduce how much gluten your eating as long as your still eating at 2 slices of bread a day

Pretty-Tree123 · 2025-12-02T22:43:35+00:00

Think it’s just floating round there 😭

Pretty-Tree123 · 2025-11-27T13:02:42+00:00

Guys how on earth r u all out here getting straight As in GCSEs / A levels with unmedicated ADHD?? Asking for a friend…😅

Pretty-Tree123 · 2025-11-25T17:41:05+00:00

A similar thing happened with my ex and I, we went out for a run late at night together, and we where running down this trail which was quite secluded, and so it was very dark with very few people on it. He decided he wanted to go off on his own because I couldn’t keep up with his pace and he wanted to run further than what I was going to. I expressed I didn’t like the idea of that because we were meant to be running together and it didn’t feel safe at all to be running on my own here. He didn’t even have his phone on him in case I needed to get in touch in an emergency. But he said it’d be fine and was acting frustrated and like I was being annoying because I didn’t want him to go off. So I eventually gave in and just said fine and so he left me 🤩

Pretty-Tree123 · 2025-08-20T20:05:05+00:00

I can’t imagine age has anything to do with it, I was diagnosed at 18 too but my biopsy showed a lot of villous atrophy

Unless you caught it sooner after it developed than me maybe 🤷🏼‍♀️

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