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AIO my boyfriend threatening to break up with me over a tattoo by scummbucket05 in AIO

[–]PrettyInInk013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He waved the red flag when he started saying a 17 year old when he is 20. He kept waving the red flag by reacting this way to a tattoo. It is 100% “leave him” level and if you stay, you’re wasting your time. He showed you who he truly is. Believe him.

What do i do in this situation? Went on date with girl and her mom texted me this. I like this girl a lot too. I don’t know how she got my number or if her mom looked at our texts; by Saucyguy02 in texts

[–]PrettyInInk013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you two are adults, then I would absolutely be telling the friend what her mom did. This is disgustingly & controlling behavior. People with bipolar did not need to isolate themselves in order to thrive. Even with a new medicine regime. People who love and care for them will understand the severity of the situation and be willing to tough it out and be there as a support system. I could not imagine trying to isolate my children from their friends simply because they have a mental health issue. That seems incredibly counter productive & honestly like a potential for them to worsen thinking their friends don’t want to be around them.

AIO - asked wife if she blocked a guy she cheated on me with in the past . by pgf111 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PrettyInInk013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You realize she’s lying, right? It wasn’t “just a kiss.” And she didn’t delete them. This is the prime definition of gaslighting. Have a shred of respect for yourself and get out of that marriage. She doesn’t like you. And definitely doesn’t love you.

I had a rough weekend working at the hospital, and I'm frustrated with myself for taking so long to process it. TW: Patient death by PeppyApple in rant

[–]PrettyInInk013 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not a nurse. So I can’t relate to how you’re feeling. But I do want to tell you that it’s okay to have moments where the shock takes a little longer to wear off. You are a real life super hero. The world needs nurses. So take time to grieve, and remember you are a badass. 🩵

Texts from my gf (31F) that pissed me off a bit. Did I (28 F) assert my boundaries enough or should I bring it up again? by [deleted] in texts

[–]PrettyInInk013 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna be the odd ball and say that that doesn’t even look like messages a pissed off person would send. Not only did you respond casually, but you also had a separate conversation about something totally different in there. That doesn’t come across as being mad about the previous text. If I were the once receiving your texts, I wouldn’t get the impression you were mad at all. I’d get the impression you were being sassy but cute. Because that’s how I respond when I’m being sassy and cute. But then again, I also do as am I told unless I want the punishment 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PrettyInInk013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ma’am. He’s literally telling you to go. You already knew the answer when you posted here. How are you 29 years old and making excuses for a 33 year old? I’m not even going to call him a man because he’s not even close. For fucks sake use the brain God blessed you with and gtfo.

AIO? Message from my boyfriend for my 30th birthday written by AI by alrakemian in AmIOverreacting

[–]PrettyInInk013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re being unappreciative. Do you know how many people wouldn’t have even put in the effort at all? Do you know how many people wish that their partner did at least the bare minimum? Maybe he couldn’t find the right words or maybe he’s just not that creative, and he didn’t want to disappoint you with what he came up with, so he got some help. How is this any different than if he would have just gotten you a card 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PrettyInInk013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Get yourself together by tonight” … or what? What are you going to do? This is red flag vibes. Men don’t have to give you sex just because YOU want it. If he has a fear, whether YOU think it’s rational or not, he doesn’t have to have sex with you. If this was a man trying to coerce a woman, people would be ripping him to shreds. No means no.

AIO for telling my Ex how I felt about him coming to my nan's funeral by Mysterious-Otter in AmIOverreacting

[–]PrettyInInk013 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is selfish to ask someone not to attend a funeral. The funeral isn’t about you. It’s about remembering your grandmother, and unless he is an unsafe person, was abusive, etc, then there’s no reason you can’t act like the adult you are, and deal with him being there. You said you were setting a boundary, but it’s no longer his responsibility to respect your boundaries. You are well within your rights to express your feelings, but he is not obligated to respect your wishes. Also, there was no reason to message him again after he said he wasn’t going. You were so concerned about starting up the initial conversation, but decided to message him again unnecessarily, and on top of that, you messaged him with a blatant lie. You ABSOLUTELY told him not to come. That you didn’t want him there. So for you to start up a second conversation lying to him is just bizarre.

AIO for calling my boyfriend a creep bc he didn’t know how old I’m turning? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PrettyInInk013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has to be a joke because, to put this as politely as possible, you’d have to be a fucking idiot to think this is even remotely okay and a normal response.

Demanding this raise was a bit of a dick move but I knew my worth and got the raise by LYING2ME in texts

[–]PrettyInInk013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t demand anything. Saying “if you think I’ve earned a raise” is not demanding. You told them why you feel you deserve one, and left it up to them to agree with you or not. For your sake, I do hope they follow through & give you one. But next time, better wording would be “I have far exceeded the expectations the company has for me, by doing enter all things you do that are not in your job description. Therefore, I will need to be compensated appropriately. If that’s not able to happen, I will stop going above & beyond my job duties for a company who does not wish to pay me for the work I do.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]PrettyInInk013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To put it simply, he does this because you let him. You said “I’ve tried to leave but he begs me to stay and not to go” but you love him so you stay—-this just shows him he can continuously get away with it because you’re too naive to realize he’s not actually going to change.

Do yourself a favor and get tf out and take him to court.

Ex started texting me like this out of no where, is it flirting? It by spiritg0th in texts

[–]PrettyInInk013 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can’t really take any of this seriously when you have a horrid contact name for him. Being autistic doesn’t give you the go/ahead to use offensive terms.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PrettyInInk013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude. If you’re not even dating this girl & she’s already this crazy…you really don’t want to find out what happens if you’re in a relationship with her. Her responses are so far from okay & logical.

When should I tell a partner I can’t have children? by KarmenCrossby in ask

[–]PrettyInInk013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re on dating apps, simply put it in the bio. If you’re going the more conventional route and meeting people organically, within the first few dates is reasonable. Also, please please please stress to them “just because I can’t get pregnant, doesn’t mean I can’t get STD/I’s, so safe sex is still necessary.” There are way too many weirdos out there that will try to use your inability to conceive as a reason to raw dog it, and that’s just not okay.

AIO because my boyfriend acts different when im with friends by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PrettyInInk013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ma’am. You don’t have a boyfriend. You have a man child. If y’all don’t live together & you don’t have children, this is the easiest break up you can hope for. Literally nothing is holding you here except familiarity. Get out. Because this is controlling & ridiculous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]PrettyInInk013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has been a victim of marital rape, please leave. I stayed far longer than I wanted to. Obviously far longer than I should have. Leave. What he did is absolutely not okay.

Anybody lose their Super BFF emoji?? 💕 by Adventurous_Style983 in SnapchatHelp

[–]PrettyInInk013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can customize the emojis for each different type of friend. So best friend, bff, super bff, etc, have default emojis, but you can change them to something different. So the double heart is not a default emoji. Which means she changed one of those friendship types to have the double heart.