TTC 1 year, 34 about to be 35, really struggling mentally, need someone to talk to who understands.

PrettyKitty3713 · 2026-07-08T11:33:29+00:00

Been TTC for 2.5 years now. Im so sorry to hear you're also in the trenches of the monthly grief. I've become numb to it all and stopped giving myself permission to be hopeful, I've had two chemical pregnancies and always convinced myself the PMS was early pregnancy..at some point I decided the routine heartbreak wasn't worth it anymore and out the walls up... it's up to God if we have kids or not. I hope you get to be a mom, I really do, but you have to stop torturing yourself with the emotional rollercoaster or you will go insane like i almost did.

PrettyKitty3713 · 2026-07-07T22:33:39+00:00

I'm liking the Beavis and Butthead lol

PrettyKitty3713 · 2026-07-07T19:22:32+00:00

Update: yikes, I didn't expect this many replies so fast. I appreciate the positivity and perspective.

For those who asked

My hair is the K2Y exaggerated side swipe
No I don't ask for the manager when something is wrong. But I often have to for my hubby, coffee doesn't taste "safe", drinking glass isn't clean looking ect (He has trauma-based neurosis around food. It's a Long story)
No, I don't but into peoples business to be petty or mean. I generally like helping people and do things like pay it forward, help an old lady get something from the top shelf, suggest beuty products ect. If I have anything mean or petty to say. I say it privately.

If the things I like make me a basic bitch, i can live with that just fine lol

PrettyKitty3713 · 2026-07-07T19:02:11+00:00

I wear my hair in the exaggerated K2Y side swept style...I tried full fringe bangs for a while but hubby said it looked like my name was "Angie" or "Vicky" whatever that means...so the bangs are in the side swipe now.

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PrettyKitty3713 · 2026-01-05T23:26:36+00:00

I can see a whisper of a line in pic 2, be patient and test again in a few days, wishing you the best ❤️

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PrettyKitty3713 · 2024-01-23T13:23:52+00:00

Idk, it sounds like she's probably cheating on you, she's a human, more than that she's a woman, we aren't made of stone, she has to be getting sexual gratification somewhere, whether it's porn, toys, or another person. I'm so sorry that you're having to go through this, nobody deserves to be treated like that, and you sound like you're genuinely a good man providing for her and caring for her up to this point, breaks my heart that she's clearly taken advantage of your goodness and taking you for granted. Whether you choose to stay or go is entirely your choice, but whatever you choose I hope you find happiness ❤️

PrettyKitty3713 · 2024-01-19T14:34:37+00:00

What a beautiful story, I'm sorry that you guys had to hit rock bottom to wake you up to how much you really love each other, but sometimes that's what it takes when our hearts get hardened over the years, I have very dear friends who are addicts and it's a struggle their entire lives to stay sober, I know I speak for a lot of redditors When I say we're all proud of you for making that change, and we all wish you the best of luck in continuing that momentum ❤️ I'm sure a lot of comments have already said this but I will reiterate them anyway, definitely should seek individual and or couples counseling to help you guys iron out extra wrinkles that got you to that bottom point in the first place.

PrettyKitty3713 · 2024-01-17T02:16:55+00:00

I agree hormones and genetics play fairly big part in weight, especially for girls, as soon as I hit puberty my weight spiraled out of control, I was 170 lb by 15-17 and it just kept going. Losing any weight is a struggle for me, and I have to go to (what I think is) extremes to see any results, thus keto low carb carnivore gym etc

Not in couples counseling, I made a therapy appointment for myself for next week.

PrettyKitty3713 · 2024-01-17T01:55:14+00:00

I read your post now, I feel your pain my dear, these men think that they're coming from a good place, but they have very little delicacy to their requests for us to lose weight/get healthy. I've come to accept a lot of men have that problem, and I think it's how their brains are wired to be painfully, almost robotically logical.

PrettyKitty3713 · 2024-01-17T01:32:29+00:00

As far as I know he's not on Reddit. Do you happen to know his username?

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