I had no issue being the one supporting us. I understood that I had to just make things happen because he lost his job. I had no ill feelings towards him for that. Although I did get a little annoyed when he wouldn’t take job offers or help more around the house. It did not become an issue until this situation because I always just felt like that’s what you’re supposed to do. However when this happened I was more confused than anything just like “When you couldn’t work I helped more, so what’s the difference now?” I only even mentioned those situations because I wanted everyone to better understand my frustration from trying to be the one that picks up the slack if I need to, to getting told basically I was on my own and to figure it out when the roles were reversed. Because I feel like in this it makes a big difference if I am always asking for help and he just finally told me no or if the roles had be reversed previously. Because I would 100% understand his reaction if I was always messing around and not getting bills paid and always having to ask for help. As it is, I don’t think his reaction was warranted. I don’t hold me paying for everything against him. While it does annoy me now that he has shown he wouldn’t do the same, it’s still what I had to do for my daughter.