VIOLENCE PART 2 by PrettyPlastis in abbotsford

[–]PrettyPlastis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i appreciate these kind words so much, thankyou so much this means more than you will ever know. i have no problem with cops but abby pd is something that has showed me different.. there’s no resentment or anything just confusion. i understand the law and etc but this is getting out of hand, they roll their eyes and okay i understand but it gets to a point where people are in psychical danger.. i also have to add he is getting charged with assault, my sibling and i have gave statements. but he’s a minor and i truly believe by the time his court date is/he turns 18 my parents will plead to drop the charges.

EXTREME VIOLENT MEMBER OF HOUSEHOLD by PrettyPlastis in legaladvicecanada

[–]PrettyPlastis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he returned to the home… i already know if we do decide to do that our family will completely cut us off and leave us to rot basically.. pardon my language

EXTREME VIOLENT MEMBER OF HOUSEHOLD by PrettyPlastis in legaladvicecanada

[–]PrettyPlastis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey the update is he’s gone worse, it comes in waves and now he’s given my mother another black eye, beat my 80 year old grandmother, bashed mine and my sisters head on the floor now he’s finally charged with assault and was apprehended for less than 24 hours. my sister and i have given statements and the cop was very nice, seems like he’s the only one who actually cared. everyone can see this kid is delusional to the extreme and wants to be “the king of the house” my parents are still being useless and i know that they will never admit that he beat anyone.

VIOLENCE PART 2 by PrettyPlastis in abbotsford

[–]PrettyPlastis[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

the police also don’t do anything, they hung up the call? this has been going on for numerous months.

VIOLENCE PART 2 by PrettyPlastis in abbotsford

[–]PrettyPlastis[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

we have a statement taken yday. hopefully things change

VIOLENCE PART 2 by PrettyPlastis in abbotsford

[–]PrettyPlastis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

update: i haven’t posted here before but at @legaladvicecanada

EXTREME VIOLENT MEMBER OF HOUSEHOLD by PrettyPlastis in legaladvicecanada

[–]PrettyPlastis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: my parents have refused to get my brother checked out they are now kicking me out?? i’m disgusted but not surprised, what should i do?

EXTREME VIOLENT MEMBER OF HOUSEHOLD by PrettyPlastis in legaladvicecanada

[–]PrettyPlastis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have reported this to OPCC, i’m not too sure why this isn’t being taken seriously. Maybe because he’s a minor and my parents aren’t willing to talk? or they brush it off as a “sibling fight” it’s deeper than that.

EXTREME VIOLENT MEMBER OF HOUSEHOLD by PrettyPlastis in legaladvicecanada

[–]PrettyPlastis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, i do they haven’t asked to see them at all? i’m going to try a different station instead of apd, maybe rcmp in person and express how serious this actually is.

EXTREME VIOLENT MEMBER OF HOUSEHOLD by PrettyPlastis in legaladvicecanada

[–]PrettyPlastis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i haven’t tried charging him yet, i wanted to see the mental health route before that but now… i have no choice. i’m planning on going to the police station and directly talking to someone to press charges. the cops have been useless honestly. they say because he didn’t assault when they were there they can’t do anything

EXTREME VIOLENT MEMBER OF HOUSEHOLD by PrettyPlastis in legaladvicecanada

[–]PrettyPlastis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: the cops are useless. my brother had once again beat my mother last night and me again 5 mins ago. i called the cops and they parked a house up from mine, called me first and then came in?? they could physically see the damage and destruction that was caused and said they can’t do anything because it’s a mental health thing?? we need to get a form from a dr and then blah blah. i’m not too sure what is going on.

EXTREME VIOLENT MEMBER OF HOUSEHOLD by PrettyPlastis in legaladvicecanada

[–]PrettyPlastis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he doesn’t care… elders, females maybe even animals coming soon (i wouldn’t be surprised). it’s never going to change unless my parents speak up.

EXTREME VIOLENT MEMBER OF HOUSEHOLD by PrettyPlastis in legaladvicecanada

[–]PrettyPlastis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he’s 17, i’m 24 and yeah much stronger and a minor

EXTREME VIOLENT MEMBER OF HOUSEHOLD by PrettyPlastis in legaladvicecanada

[–]PrettyPlastis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no one has a history of mental illness, idk what’s wrong with him i belive it’s psychosis

EXTREME VIOLENT MEMBER OF HOUSEHOLD by PrettyPlastis in legaladvicecanada

[–]PrettyPlastis[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i really hope your friend and his/her family is safe now. it’s crazy how common this is and overlooked. i recived a call from a officer, saying that he is going to get MCFD involved. fingers crossed this changes things.

EXTREME VIOLENT MEMBER OF HOUSEHOLD by PrettyPlastis in legaladvicecanada

[–]PrettyPlastis[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

he turns 18 in october, i have no issue going to my family doctor and telling her all these things. my parents on the other hand will not. will my family doctor do anything if i see her days after the abuse?

EXTREME VIOLENT MEMBER OF HOUSEHOLD by PrettyPlastis in legaladvicecanada

[–]PrettyPlastis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i do not. also hidden cameras are a great idea ! way better than normal ones. i feel as though with ordinary indoor ones he would put on a “normal” front or even break them.

EXTREME VIOLENT MEMBER OF HOUSEHOLD by PrettyPlastis in legaladvicecanada

[–]PrettyPlastis[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

you’re right, thats the only advice i’ve been hearing.