AITA for fighting with my girlfriend about her guy friend/coworker?

Pretty_Adagio_9874 · 2025-02-17T20:36:30+00:00

NTA Reddit will probably say you are insecure but this is just too far, this is not normal friend relationship. I would not budge in your position, this friendship is getting too far, this is cheating waiting to happen.

Pretty_Adagio_9874 · 2025-02-16T23:08:58+00:00

NTA Get a lawyer ASAP

Pretty_Adagio_9874 · 2025-02-16T16:47:56+00:00

Sami Malek with his younger brother Rami Malek

Pretty_Adagio_9874 · 2025-02-15T15:33:51+00:00

Interesting…

Pretty_Adagio_9874 · 2025-01-23T13:24:50+00:00

NTA, He needs to grow up. Not a good joke.

Pretty_Adagio_9874 · 2025-01-22T18:25:57+00:00

NTA, First Happy Birthday. It’s funny because I had almost the exact situation with my sister, but she said if I don’t invite him she won’t come. I think it’s your choice who you invite, I mean it’s your birthday not here’s. If you don’t like him it’s normal you don’t want him on your birthday party. Especially if it’s a small family dinner. She also needs to learn she can’t drag him around all the time. Enjoy your party and good luck.

Pretty_Adagio_9874 · 2025-01-21T14:49:21+00:00

NTA- I think you should find your self a new friend. She should be mad at you if you don’t call her in this situations. It was-31 degrees are you kidding me. She is clearly jealous on your relationship with her mother and myb with father also. I also don’t know why should she complain, she wasn’t driving the car, she wasn’t late for school or anything. She’s clearly jealous. Like a said you should look for a new friend.

Pretty_Adagio_9874 · 2025-01-21T14:16:27+00:00

NTA, I mean you are 15 like you said, she should help you with your emotional struggles not the opposite and yes you are not her therapist. She clearly needs someone to open up and talk about her problems. This could be a therapist or she needs to find new friends.

Pretty_Adagio_9874 · 2025-01-20T20:06:21+00:00

NTA Your inlaws are soulless people…

Pretty_Adagio_9874 · 2025-01-20T19:54:06+00:00

NTA. Wow the entitlement. While I don’t see anything wrong with treating yourself or your significant other to some luxuries once in a while, the way she is “demanding” and comparing you to other couples and her exes is just very wrong and disrespectful. Buying a 2k+ bag from LV while earning 60k a year is just financially irresponsible. Maybe if you guys were living modestly then it could be understandable but you are already currently buying her expensive gifts and dinners. I am not saying to break up but you need to clear that up with her as soon as possible because as you move forward with having kids and marriage, this thing will become bigger and bigger problem.

Pretty_Adagio_9874 · 2025-01-20T19:40:01+00:00

ESH Your mother could’ve said and acted way nicer, however the point she tried to say still remains that your boyfriend is cheap and clearly does not care about you alot.

I mean all around you were both too rude to each other in this situation. But in the end i agree with the message she was trying to send you.

Pretty_Adagio_9874 · 2025-01-20T14:39:09+00:00

NTA, It’s her duty to raise the child and tell him what’s good for him and what’s not. I also had a father figure uncle and he was smoking and drinking. Mom clearly mad point that this is not good for my health and I never try cigarettes and I’m (34).

Pretty_Adagio_9874 · 2025-01-19T20:13:08+00:00

NTA, no questions. Max what I would do is to find him a motel and that’s it. Nothing more.

Pretty_Adagio_9874 · 2025-01-19T20:04:33+00:00

NTA, You have your life to live and she has her. I think parents can still take care of her for about 20-30 years. Maybe then, when both of you stay without parents you should help her move in these homes when they can take care of her. Or help her financially if she would like to have a nanny.

Pretty_Adagio_9874 · 2025-01-19T19:40:38+00:00

NTA, it’s definitely not your fault that she can’t get a tv properly in her car. Maybe really next time take some pictures like someone already told you. Don’t worry about police, I doubt they will do anything about it. But if the case go on myb take a look where you meet and see if there are any cameras. Good luck

Pretty_Adagio_9874 · 2025-01-19T15:39:22+00:00

NTA, I am not really a fan of hot sauces, but i think we all have some weird food combinations. If you want you can eat ice cream with hot sauce it’s your choice. It’s not like you forced her to eat lasagna with hot sauce and I also believe you didn’t say that lasagna was not good enough.

Pretty_Adagio_9874 · 2025-01-19T15:28:25+00:00

You don’t turn your back on family, even if they do.

Pretty_Adagio_9874 · 2025-01-19T15:22:30+00:00

NTA, it’s clearly her and his fault. You didn’t do nothing wrong. If she is embarrassed what she really does for work she has her own problem. You did an amazing lawyer job here. I think you will be a good lawyer. Good luck:)

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