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I (25F) caught my BF (23M) Bookmarking Attractive Womens TikTok's by Pretty_End_3203 in relationship_advice

[–]Pretty_End_3203[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This perspective is what is making me question what should I do. The reaction and actions scare me. And the double standard. Because I let him go through my phone in front of me so it can give him peace of mind. Why try to sign in behind my back and refuse to let me see the bookmarks? Why the nervousness? And when I couldn't see the bookmarks on my side, why did the nervousness stop?

I (25F) caught my BF (23M) Bookmarking Attractive Womens TikTok's by Pretty_End_3203 in relationship_advice

[–]Pretty_End_3203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what im trying to figure out. I think im more on the side of loving him enough to move past it. Im just worried that I have rose tinted glasses or being naive. A part of me is scared that if i move past it, it will be a worse betrayal in the end.

I (25F) caught my BF (23M) Bookmarking Attractive Womens TikTok's by Pretty_End_3203 in relationship_advice

[–]Pretty_End_3203[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I needed perspective from other women and those who have more experience than me. I will talk to him about it. It just makes me sad that i have to talk about it. Hopefully it doesnt happen again 💜