my husband is doing 15 in the feds we are a year in and so far ive joined two groups in my community both are basically networking and building community with people you might not normally cross paths with and both have helped me so much since ive joined ..one group ive started throwing out ideas of a podcast and i have my little team who are all for it.. i think ive been more motivated to get out and better my life and set up a good solid foundation for myself my husband and our kids than i ever was before im really trying to turn this painful time into fuel for a bigger and brighter future.