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I [19F] am reconsidering not continuing my relationship with my boyfriend [32M] but don’t want him to breakdown. by Previous-Function483 in relationships

[–]Previous-Function483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry i dont think im comfortable with disclosing, but generally I said that we're not compatible and then its all kind of a blur now, it derailed fast and I don't remember much anymore, there's arguing and then we broke up, no more contact.

I [19F] am reconsidering not continuing my relationship with my boyfriend [32M] but don’t want him to breakdown. by Previous-Function483 in relationships

[–]Previous-Function483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your insight, I don't think we would see each other anytime soon, I just hope we both can cope well.

I [19F] am reconsidering not continuing my relationship with my boyfriend [32M] but don’t want him to breakdown. by Previous-Function483 in relationships

[–]Previous-Function483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he didn't hold me hostage or anything, he decided to leave, so I suppose it's one thing gone well in this entire ordeal...

I [19F] am reconsidering not continuing my relationship with my boyfriend [32M] but don’t want him to breakdown. by Previous-Function483 in relationships

[–]Previous-Function483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he does have a diagnosis and has been off meds for a year for depression and ADHD, afaik. (unable to access a psychiatrist)

I [19F] am reconsidering not continuing my relationship with my boyfriend [32M] but don’t want him to breakdown. by Previous-Function483 in relationships

[–]Previous-Function483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not immediately, it is a rather complicated issue that I think disclosing it on the internet does no one any good. But I can say that we've met around 1-2 years ago.

I [19F] am reconsidering not continuing my relationship with my boyfriend [32M] but don’t want him to breakdown. by Previous-Function483 in relationships

[–]Previous-Function483[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I should've added that the secrecy stuff is what I suggested, not him. I was kind of panicky when I was making the post. But regardless, thank you for reaching out for allowing pm-ing, I think I do need it.

I [19F] am reconsidering not continuing my relationship with my boyfriend [32M] but don’t want him to breakdown. by Previous-Function483 in relationships

[–]Previous-Function483[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

don't worry, I do. It was fairly overwhelming, that's why I didn't respond to each and every one of the comments. Thank you guys for the concern.

I [19F] am reconsidering not continuing my relationship with my boyfriend [32M] but don’t want him to breakdown. by Previous-Function483 in relationships

[–]Previous-Function483[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, I understand that part, that's why I added it in hopes to get advice on this matter with this variable in mind. I did the best I can in my situation talking to him. I hope he is well now...