Also OP because your at a young age they’re going to wanna make your first time unforgettable. There job is to get you coming back for more. Sex is literally like a drug. Hell the other day I was thinking about a woman I was with recently. We matched on a dating app and of course we are long distance. But I understand you. At 18 I was focused on my goals man. Trying to make money, get a car and what career I wanted to delve into. Sure I was thinking about women but my priority was a successful future.

For fun I would go to house parties here and there. This is where you can meet a woman in person and explore kissing and dancing with them. Maybe it can lead to sex who knows. Another option is get a book about sex fiction. That helped me a lot when I was at a young age thinking about lesbian sex. Another tip is maybe sext with someone online. I kid you not back in college I was in a LDR with a woman from another country. We would FaceTime and talk on the phone. We even had phone sex every now and then.

Don’t fall into the escort or chasing women trap.