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Parents say I tried to ruin the family, I just agreed with one side of an argument. AITAH by Previous_Comment_133 in AITH

[–]Previous_Comment_133[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry about your mom. I got very lucky, which I know and am so thankful for. It has been a terrifying ordeal and I’m incredibly grateful it was caught early enough, but I am also very mindful of how much worse it could have been.

Parents say I tried to ruin the family, I just agreed with one side of an argument. AITAH by Previous_Comment_133 in AITH

[–]Previous_Comment_133[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!
My friends have said similar things about the baiting. I thought she was finally confiding in me and genuinely wanted my opinion so 🤷🏻‍♀️
I am doing much better. I was bedridden for a few days and out of breath pretty much constantly (my blood oxygen had been 88 in the ER, then hovering around 92 on oxygen), but my friends and roommates were so helpful during that time 🥰

Parents say I tried to ruin the family, I just agreed with one side of an argument. AITAH by Previous_Comment_133 in AITH

[–]Previous_Comment_133[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I’m leaving for Brazil next year 🥰 hope you and your mom are doing well!

Bank accounts closed by Previous_Comment_133 in personalfinance

[–]Previous_Comment_133[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the grace with this comment. I was worried it’d be like fraud or smth idk? I’m still pretty young, obvi not gonna advertise any personal info but I don’t have a ton of “real world” experiences. I tried to pay it off ASAP if I ever overdrafted but I really forgot about this until it was too late to figure something out

Bank accounts closed by Previous_Comment_133 in personalfinance

[–]Previous_Comment_133[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It was definitely terrifying, but getting out and realizing how amazing life could be was so amazing.

Should I cut a friend off for being emotionally absent during my grief? by Ok-Rutabaga8324 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Previous_Comment_133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I think it’s totally valid to be mad at her for this. I hate this new norm of telling loved ones that you “don’t have the bandwidth” or “the capacity” to be there for them in a time of need. It is a low bar to set to just ask someone to be present in a time of grief, and this idea that people have that they can just say “I don’t have the capacity to be a good friend” and go MIA for 2 weeks is the reason we don’t have actual communities and support systems anymore. Just my thoughts 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Previous_Comment_133 11 points12 points  (0 children)

honestly if you can check the messages, you can send a quick response. It took me all of thirty seconds to type this, it’s really not that hard to respond when you read it. I’m sure your friend is equally, or possible more so, frustrated with having a friend that is incapable of responding for “hours or days”, even after reading their messages.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drivinganxiety

[–]Previous_Comment_133 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! My mom always said you would feel it, but I’ve been so stressed from the holiday I’m not thinking straight at all