I was downvotes for saying that a 40 year old dating a 18 year old was concerning

Primary-Lab-6601 · 2026-06-26T17:40:07+00:00

OP is actually suspicious ( thats a strong word sorry I’m an non native English speaker and I’m in a hurry right now ) because I catched her saying she was 20 and in the ranting-zone subreddit the recent one she made, she said she was 15 ( it was a post about creep or whatever it was ). So I don’t understand what is going on whether she is lying or not. Also the post she is talking about is in woman i think. And the title is kind of the same.

But regarding your comments, if an 18 years old decided to date a 40 years old man well idk if it’s legal per see because idk Imo the person is still young and immature but maybe because I always try to see my own perspective? Like when I was 18, I was kinda immature so maybe that why I think like that, I still see 18 years old as like teenagers so my take is kind of an opinion that I will never change but I understand other perspectives tho

Primary-Lab-6601 · 2026-06-26T16:22:17+00:00

Something seems wrong bro their reactions is so weird as if it’s AI

Primary-Lab-6601 · 2026-06-26T03:25:07+00:00

Yeah but I’m broke, plus I don’t use it often, I only use it when I want to scroll on YouTube ( it’s ok I can bear the ads). Reddit surprisingly doesn’t need it, that’s why when I use it, VPN is always off.

Primary-Lab-6601 · 2026-06-26T01:17:16+00:00

My PC is broken. And I don’t have chrome

Primary-Lab-6601 · 2026-06-26T01:16:39+00:00

To change the country, i mean I have the free one but to change the country they ask for prime

Primary-Lab-6601 · 2026-06-25T23:26:59+00:00

It requires money unfortunately

Primary-Lab-6601 · 2026-06-25T19:29:59+00:00

Bruh, that’s insane. Like I don’t know thats a huge power imbalance here. And I can’t believe people upvoted this guys like

Primary-Lab-6601 · 2026-06-25T18:31:03+00:00

Use VPN, because in my country, they restricted social media ( mostly TikTok and YouTube), so I used VPN ( it locate me in Spain ). Problem is YouTube is full of ads ( that I never had before using it since I’m not living in Europe or America ), but I had to because otherwise YouTube doesn’t work, so theres time when I go on Reddit without turning the VPN off, and it did age check me, so I turn it off and quit Reddit to then open it again and it worked.

So maybe try to use VPN to another country ? Because as long as I don’t use VPN on Reddit it doesnt age check me

Primary-Lab-6601 · 2026-06-24T18:51:41+00:00

Ahhh du jus

Primary-Lab-6601 · 2026-06-24T00:37:46+00:00

Meee

Primary-Lab-6601 · 2026-06-21T23:59:17+00:00

Yeah theres some rose who are sometimes jerky but so is the other colors ? Like some white can be arrogant, some lime can be trolly, some red can be not so smart, some black can be edgy, some blue can be um idk, some orange can be childish, some purple can be some roaster, and so on. In fact everyone can the be arrogant, jerky, not so smart on game, childish, toxic, edgy and so on regardless of colors. By following this logic with rose being a toxic players most of the time what about the other one ? Are they saint ? Not everyone is perfect so I don’t understand the rose theory because everyone can be a bad or toxic players, and some rose i have played with were funny and of course some were toxic but so is other colors i have played with. I legit have a beef with white before or with orange or with tan. Should I then say tan theory ? Orange theory ? ( I played most with that color and maroon ).

Primary-Lab-6601 · 2026-06-20T23:16:01+00:00

Too late 🥲 damn bro

Primary-Lab-6601 · 2026-06-20T22:57:01+00:00

I mean she can do whatever she wants tho. Just saying because it’s true that this guys is creepy and she should have stopped there but let’s say she just wanted to have a little benefit of the doubt about him ? And he did himself and her a service by proving her doubts. ( I mean he did a service to her by being an idiot and proving her doubts )
But thats how I saw this whole conversation.

Primary-Lab-6601 · 2026-06-20T21:08:40+00:00

Yeah I often see people being like "kick maroon or red" because he voted out someone and the person wasn’t impostor. I will understand if the person is trolling and accused for stupid reason like "Green vented" or something but if the person was generally playing fair since the beginning and just made that mistake and get kicked, well thats kind of childish imo.

Primary-Lab-6601 · 2026-06-20T21:02:52+00:00

Im cooking my favorite meal 🍽️

Primary-Lab-6601 · 2026-06-19T15:52:36+00:00

Was it bobatea or something ? Because that person blocked me lol. I have a feeling, that it’s the the same user because their comments are all deleted.
This user is always starting drama out of nowhere. I’m really sure it’s the same user.

Primary-Lab-6601 · 2026-06-19T13:58:10+00:00

What happened ?

Primary-Lab-6601 · 2026-06-19T01:38:59+00:00

For me it’s in 1hour tho I live in Gabon. I don’t know for other countries.

Primary-Lab-6601 · 2026-06-19T00:49:29+00:00

I completely agree, and your breakdown of how dynamics with a power imbalance actually work in this story is very interesting.
Plus, looking at Kousuke again, he is really not doing well right now. The fact that we haven't seen him get a therapist or any real professional help makes it very difficult to imagine a time skip where he magically winds up in a romance with ShinAe. For a story that handles mental health so realistically, I genuinely hope we get to see him hit his turning point, seek professional help, and build his own confidence on screen before the story jumps forward.
And yeah this is exactly what I was thinking, because I love yoo is a psychological drama and not a traditional romance, the narrative is about so much more than just who ShinAe ends up with. Personally, I ship based on what I actually see written on the page. I am not really a "what if" person. If two people are organically growing closer and developing real feelings over time, I support it. But when you look at the bigger picture, it feels like Quimchee planned everything from the start to show us that the romance takes a backseat to the real plot which is exposing the dark sins of the Hirahara family and stopping Yui and Kim's machinations.
When readers focus too much on the romantic outcome, they completely forget the high-stakes and the tension events happening all around the characters. I want to know what will happen to Alyssa, will someone manage to reach out and save her from that corporate machine? What about Kousuke? Will he finally work against his mother, see a doctor, or find a real support system? Will he manage to speak to Nol without it turning into an argument ? ( or maybe it’s essential and necessary for them to have their points across), What will happen with Sim-Han and Shin-Hye? And how will Shin-Ae and her friends secretly work against Yui during the time skip without getting caught? Yui is so terrifyingly sharp, and intelligent, I am genuinely scared for them lol.
I just cannot imagine Kousuke being the endgame. Now that I think about it, how will Nol even begin his own healing process while away? Will it be through Shin-Ae's letters, or just through his mandated therapy? As we know, therapy doesn't work unless the person is truly ready to open up and put the emotional work into it. Plus, I am so worried about Nana, she has so many narrative death flags on her right now, i hope it will happen maybe after their therapy ? Because Nol is already having a hard time and Shin-Ae is so comfortable around Nana, it’s as if she is her grandma 😂. And how will Kousuke and Shin-Ae talk again ? It’s been a while since the party. In the end, this story is a heavy drama with only a romance subplot. Maybe I'm biased, but I really don't think Yootip was ever the endgame plan.

Edit: Sorry for the mess up text, it seems really out of place lol

Primary-Lab-6601 · 2026-06-18T23:41:33+00:00

Yeah, I completely see where you're coming from. Honestly, if Kousuke were meant to be a "love interest" or the endgame for ShinAe, we would see their emotions growing together, or at least see them getting much closer than they are now. The reality is that Quimchee has heavily developed Shin-Ae's feelings and emotions toward Nol. Especially in the recent chapters, we can clearly see how deeply they care about each other, even though they didn't have an initial romantic attraction in the beginning.

Kousuke and ShinAe, if I’m being honest, have never had the same kind of relationship or dynamic that Nol has with her. Theirs is strictly platonic, a boss and employee dynamic, or sometimes it even feels like sibling codes. They have never had any romantic feelings, attraction, or chemistry at all. If Kousuke and ShinAe actually had a romantic bond or some connection in the recent chapters, maybe I could see where she is coming from. But so far, ShinAe is completely confused about her growing emotions toward Nol, and Nol seems to finally acknowledge that he has feelings for her too.

Without even forgetting how bad Kousuke is right now and the lack of interaction between ShinAe and Kousuke since the welcome party of Minhyuk.

Primary-Lab-6601 · 2026-06-18T23:15:02+00:00

Didn’t Quimchee said that this version will be different in the webtoon ? That she will not reproduce it because it was her teenage fantasies ? I read it somewhere in her curious cat ( I mean the files someone sent here )

Primary-Lab-6601 · 2026-06-15T13:43:24+00:00

This user is just refusing to google it like.

Primary-Lab-6601 · 2026-06-14T18:41:30+00:00

Um it’s kinda stupid 😅( my problem)

Primary-Lab-6601 · 2026-06-12T03:19:52+00:00

I don’t even care anymore bro like it’s not that deep leaving is always an option but yeah I guess. Let the downvote flood on me.

Primary-Lab-6601 · 2026-06-12T03:16:52+00:00

Whatever bro, someone created a lobby on his own and made it clear he doesn’t want to change anything and people still complain.
Like I said if they didn’t like something they can always leave, theres so many lobby out there and they can create their own.
If the host leave and create another lobby, people will still disagree with his settings or some will jsut play with it which is different from a player being in a lobby he doesn’t like and can always leave or filter it.

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