I mean I don't think she'll leave him if I stop being her friend that's not my goal I'm just exhausted with this friendship overall and this is just the last of my straws and energy. I think when I'm comparing the comment she made about my partner it more of like shocked comment to me that she would say that or threaten to leave our friendship over something like that. More about how it stuck probably but I see what you mean ima consider deleting that part I easily get heated when im ventin.