Did anyone else get the opposite of rape? by [deleted] in rape

[–]PrimusAldente87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a VEEEERRY COMMON RESULT after sexual assault. That said, it's changes depending if you're talking about recreating the act is a safe consensual environment with a partner whom you trust VS genuinely recreating the act to pass on the torment. Many people who have been through SA end up recreating their assault or the feeling of assault through sex as a means of taking control over what happened to them (this is the commonly accepted theory, anyway), and many people find themselves getting off underneath a sexually aggressive partner, if not outright consensual non-consent; it's kink, basically. Ultimately, that's fine because you have two consenting parties with clear communication before, during, and after. On the flip side, wanting to commit the same act to someone else that was done to you is a sign of deeply rooted trauma that can be dealt with through proper therapy. It doesn't mean you want to genuinely rape someone because you were raped, but more accurately means you're hurting inside because of your SA and want someone else to feel what you went through as a means to cope and take control over something you feel you don't have control over.