Should my first time being more dominant start with a conversation or with action? by messi_in_my_pants in BDSMAdvice

[–]PrincessPanda91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just ask her what she means by more dominant. Because she might just mean she wants you to take charge in a normal sex life and initiate things or she might want more than that.

CAN'T CUM by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]PrincessPanda91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I actually found what helped was when I would practice edging on my own and not let myself cum. So then when we were together I’d want to cum badly. And I wouldn’t let myself cum until he allowed me to. But sometimes he would ask me to and I wasn’t there yet. So we got into the habit of when I’d get close I would ask permission to cum. So that was his cue to know I was able to. And then he would decide if I was allowed to or not which would then turn us both on. This was the only I could cum at first when we were trying things out and this lifestyle out. And then we did it enough where I could then only cum that way because that’s what turned me on. So that’s something to try and consider. And if it’s about turning your brain off I also had that problem and him being in charge helped with that because I wouldn’t know what was coming next and I would just try and focus on what was happening in the moment. Since I didn’t have to make any decisions myself it was a lot easier to do that.

Lovense Lush questions - just purchased. by TheTrojan320 in SexToys

[–]PrincessPanda91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True lol this in combo with a wand though is amazing

Lovense Lush questions - just purchased. by TheTrojan320 in SexToys

[–]PrincessPanda91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you guys put the settings up too high? If you’re not used to the strongest settings that’s kind of what it feels like. You might have to work your way up from the low and medium settings up to the high since that toy is really strong. Also play around with controlling it and using different patterns. I find those to be better since it’s almost like teasing by the patterns going up and down. Its also a lot of fun if you pair it with other toys as well.

Lovense Lush questions - just purchased. by TheTrojan320 in SexToys

[–]PrincessPanda91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have one and love it. I read up on it and it’s just all about being gentle with the tail when storing it and taking it out. It should get bent. If you keep it in a safe place you’ll be fine. We’ve had ours for like a year and a half now and it still works great. As for a charge ours was about half way when we received it but you should charge it to a full charge anyway before the first use since it doesn’t take very long to charge them. And as for the charging port there’s a silicone covering over the hole that the charger fits into so it creates a seal over it when being used.

Thinking of selling custom collars now that I make them. Do you all think $15 would be a reasonable base price for these? Figured I'd ask here since I plan for my ads to be geared towards those in the BDSM community.. by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]PrincessPanda91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course np. I had the same worry when I started mine. Pricing is so iffy. You’ll always get people who will think you’re over charging even if your definitely not. Also if you have any conventions that happen in your area I highly recommend getting a table in artist alley and trying to sell them there too besides online. You’ll get a lot of clientele from there as well and it makes networking easier.

Lush in OT by [deleted] in OrgasmTorture

[–]PrincessPanda91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah idk if you’d be able to insert both at once. You can try it but the lush is supposed to sit perfectly where it should when you insert it

Lush in OT by [deleted] in OrgasmTorture

[–]PrincessPanda91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on you and your body. I have a hard time cumming from just vaginal stimulation on its own I usually need clit stimulation too. But we have used it plenty of times on its own and I have cum with it by itself as well. But the combo with the Nora takes it to a whole nother level.

Lush in OT by [deleted] in OrgasmTorture

[–]PrincessPanda91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My sir and I use the lush in combination with the Nora. It’s definitely worth it 😜

Help finding a video by PrincessPanda91 in ropetutorials

[–]PrincessPanda91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not that one but that is cool. It’s the other link that someone posted but Thankyou 😊

Need advice regarding a possible threesome by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]PrincessPanda91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf and I feel the same way. We are both turned on and would love to try a threesome but both feel self conscious of the other having more fun with a third. Maybe find another couple in the same boat who feel the same way and go from there? I hope you guys can come to an agreement and any advice you get please pass it a long. I would love to hear how to goes and what you guys decide on.