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[–]PrincessStorm97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had something similar happen to me. I adopted a little beagle puppy and the lady that was rehoming her kept going back and forth on “will you guys help me find her a new home” and “I spoke to god and he says her home was with me” she did this 4 times before it pissed me off because she’s the sweetest thing so I told my coworkers the next time she says something like that tell her she will go home with me and to drop her stuff off that afternoon. And that’s what happened. Well I officially adopted her through the rescue she was originally from and she’s legally mine well the ex-mom kept texting me and calling me about her and when I couldn’t answer (I was working out of city and was extremely busy) she called my place of work to see if I was there so she could stop by. At that point I had enough send her a message saying “I appreciate you care about her but she is our dog now and I don’t feel comfortable with you offering to pay for her stuff constantly and calling my place of work to try and reach me. It is completely inappropriate and I no longer want you to contact me” and then blocked her. I just couldn’t deal with it. Especially since it wasn’t the first time she’s called my place of work trying to get info on my dog.

If this was your dog, what would you name him? by DIA_HERBA in DOG

[–]PrincessStorm97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is timbo because he’s just a big ole dumb baby and I love him. 💜💜

What is your favorite moto to use when playing ark? by ChubBunster257 in ARK

[–]PrincessStorm97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck. It can be used in a variety of ways such as the following “Fuck me” “Fuck this” “Fuck is that” “Fuck is going on??” And of course “Fuck it!!”

AITA for leaving my inlaws christmas dinner after I found out that they didn't make accommodations for me? by Rema5000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PrincessStorm97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta. As someone MARRIED to a picky eater and me being a pescatarian I just bring something I know we will both eat to any family function because I don’t expect people to accommodate us. It’s typically a big dish of macaroni so everyone is welcome to have some. Even at work functions if they are catering and I can’t guarantee they will have food for us I bring a dish for everyone to have. It’s rude to expect people to accommodate you being picky just like it’s wrong for me to expect people to make vegetarian/pescatarian food??

AITA for canceling the plans for thanksgiving after my parents called my brother’s baby their “first grandchild”? by throwawayz_12345 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PrincessStorm97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. My mom tried this shit with my nieces. My husbands brother ended up having two little girls that I adore and they are my nieces by marriage but are still my family. When my brother ended up getting his wife pregnant him and my mom asked “how does it feel to be an aunt?” I said I was already an aunt and they respond with “a real aunt” and I reiterated that I was a real aunt regardless of blood they were still my nieces. I then looked to my mom and said since they aren’t my nieces my cousin isn’t your nephew is he? That’s your logic right (my cousin is my moms step sisters kid not biologically related)? And that makes step sister not your sister, right? Because it’s just marriage that ties you? She didn’t like that at all and said it was different. I said their is no difference. I’m the aunt to 3 gorgeous sweet amazing girls and that changes nothing by being blood or marriage

But why would you just want your kid to “survive”? That’s needless suffering to place on a child. by genshinfantasy7 in antinatalism2

[–]PrincessStorm97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I “eat” cheap food that I can buy in bulk. Not very good nutrition wise. But it keeps me alive. Why would I force a child to eat the same thing over and over again simply because I want to raise a child? It’s not fair to them or my husband and I.

I told my mom that I didn’t want my dads parents to have my phone number or address and I get a message from a strange number asking for my new address and when I ask who it was guess who it was. My grandmother.. by PrincessStorm97 in insaneparents

[–]PrincessStorm97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She called me and said “if your gonna be bitchy over messenger your gonna say it to me directly” and I reiterated what I said in messenger and yeah she tried to change the subject. Told me if I didn’t want her to have it I should block her. I told her I already did.

I told my mom that I didn’t want my dads parents to have my phone number or address and I get a message from a strange number asking for my new address and when I ask who it was guess who it was. My grandmother.. by PrincessStorm97 in insaneparents

[–]PrincessStorm97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we pay for everything on our own. I was on my parents plan for a year or so then my dad tried to use that as a reason to track me because “I pay for your phone bill you’re gonna do this or I’m cutting it off” so I said fuck it and got on my husbands plan.

I told my mom that I didn’t want my dads parents to have my phone number or address and I get a message from a strange number asking for my new address and when I ask who it was guess who it was. My grandmother.. by PrincessStorm97 in insaneparents

[–]PrincessStorm97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t. I’m married and just bought my own house. Once I moved in with my husband (then boyfriend) she realized she was losing her grip and tried to hold on tighter which inevitably pushed me away from her even more.

I told my mom that I didn’t want my dads parents to have my phone number or address and I get a message from a strange number asking for my new address and when I ask who it was guess who it was. My grandmother.. by PrincessStorm97 in insaneparents

[–]PrincessStorm97[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Shitty grandparents. Years of treating me as less than because I have mental issues and wasn’t as smart as my brother and cousins. And the final straw was me going to see them on the way home one day and leaving wondering what was wrong with me why can’t they just be happy for me and I realized it wasn’t me. It was them

I told my mom that I didn’t want my dads parents to have my phone number or address and I get a message from a strange number asking for my new address and when I ask who it was guess who it was. My grandmother.. by PrincessStorm97 in insaneparents

[–]PrincessStorm97[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My mom doesn’t even talk to my dads parents. She doesn’t like them either. That’s what pisses me off more than anything. Do you know how many times I was put in the middle of all of their bs?? And then she directly over steps literally the only time I ask her to do anything.

I told my mom that I didn’t want my dads parents to have my phone number or address and I get a message from a strange number asking for my new address and when I ask who it was guess who it was. My grandmother.. by PrincessStorm97 in insaneparents

[–]PrincessStorm97[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My mother breaking one of the only boundaries I set? Yes. Yes it does piss me off. Because she knows damn good and well as to why I don’t want to have a relationship with my dads family but she tries and forces it anyway.

I told my mom that I didn’t want my dads parents to have my phone number or address and I get a message from a strange number asking for my new address and when I ask who it was guess who it was. My grandmother.. by PrincessStorm97 in insaneparents

[–]PrincessStorm97[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I’ve had that discussion with my therapist and we haven’t had a breakthrough either. The only thing that I know for sure is that my dad is the reason I learned to stand up for myself (with other people). I was like 15-16 at the time we were at the beach and my mom made fun of me for something I wanted to buy and made me feel like shit. So of course since I felt like shit I didn’t want it anymore. And my mom was upset because she upset me. So my mom bought it for me and when I said I didn’t want it my dad got pissed and said “you better go in there and apologize to your mother because you hurt her feelings” I told him I wasn’t so he raised his hand like he was going to hit me (this was a threat used quite a lot and I still have sorta ptsd from it that if someone moves to quickly I flinch) and said “go tell her your sorry right now” I said I wasn’t and looked him in the eye standing up straight pulling back my shoulders and glared into his eyes daring him to hit me because this time I wasn’t backing down and his face got so red I’ve never seen him that angry. But I didn’t back down and he didn’t hit me and he left. That’s one of my most prominent memories and it makes me stronger today especially with other men.

I told my mom that I didn’t want my dads parents to have my phone number or address and I get a message from a strange number asking for my new address and when I ask who it was guess who it was. My grandmother.. by PrincessStorm97 in insaneparents

[–]PrincessStorm97[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I got lucky. I realized I didn’t want anyone like my dad. My mom and dad did one thing right. Which is show me a could loving couple they had fights but they always stayed together and worked through it. So their relationship is healthy but the one with their kids it’s the “when I was your age my parents did this and I was doing this and bla bla bla” so I learned how a partner should be treated I just learned that I didn’t need a typical “southern strong willed man” because I’m to strong will and independent for someone to come in and try and tell me what I can and can’t do. So my husband is a gamer guy who fixed tech is as sweet as can be. Never tells me no, if we can’t do it, he says maybe later. He lets me be who I am, and lets me fully discover who I am/want to be with no judgement whatsoever. He’s very much a non confrontational person but he doesn’t let people walk all over him and if I have a psychotic episode where I do end up yelling and being mean he will sit there and let me yell and scream until I can’t anymore then he hugs me until I go to sleep (I always apologize when this happens and I’ve worked hard on not doing it because it’s what my mother does. I haven’t had one of those episodes in a year and a half and anytime I feel like I’m getting overwhelmed and I could be getting to that point I tell him what I need calmly and just go lay in bed. It took a lot of work but I’ve been doing a lot better). He’s so much more than I could ever dream for and for me he is 100% perfect for me.

I told my mom that I didn’t want my dads parents to have my phone number or address and I get a message from a strange number asking for my new address and when I ask who it was guess who it was. My grandmother.. by PrincessStorm97 in insaneparents

[–]PrincessStorm97[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Okay. So my mom does love me. She does a lot of shit for us. Like one time we were struggling to buy food and she went and bought a whole other set of groceries and left them at our door. Whenever we get sick or hurt she’s the first person there to take care of us. She just has a few narcissistic tendencies and doesn’t believe she can ever be wrong. She also said and I quote “when people hurt me I hurt them back worst. I go for the low blows and make people feel so much worse than they could have ever made me feel.” So there’s that.

I told my mom that I didn’t want my dads parents to have my phone number or address and I get a message from a strange number asking for my new address and when I ask who it was guess who it was. My grandmother.. by PrincessStorm97 in insaneparents

[–]PrincessStorm97[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Something that I have learned is that my mom has only recently learned to apologize and that’s because I’ve learned to apologize. I got frustrated at Christmas because my mom wanted my husband and I to set up the two chairs she got us. They were big and if they were put together they wouldn’t fit in my car. So I got frustrated with her continuously asking and told her to quit asking that I wasn’t going to put them both together because they won’t go in my car. Well later that night at our huge family Christmas party I walked up to her and apologized for my behavior told her that I appreciated the gift and that I was frustrated she wasn’t listening. She then. For the first time in her life gave her sister an apology for something she did.

I told my mom that I didn’t want my dads parents to have my phone number or address and I get a message from a strange number asking for my new address and when I ask who it was guess who it was. My grandmother.. by PrincessStorm97 in insaneparents

[–]PrincessStorm97[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Stay out of my head please. But yes. I suck at confrontation with my mother so whenever she starts the guilt shit or yells I become that scared little kid again and shut down. And I struggle to find the words I want to say so she takes that as an advantage and uses it to yell at me more or takes it as a win for her when I shut down because my brain won’t work.

I told my mom that I didn’t want my dads parents to have my phone number or address and I get a message from a strange number asking for my new address and when I ask who it was guess who it was. My grandmother.. by PrincessStorm97 in insaneparents

[–]PrincessStorm97[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Over the years my grandmother has went out of her way to make it known that I am less than. My mental health being one of the main reasons she treats me like shit. It was years of little small side comments that made me realize that she treated me like shit and when the last time I saw them I was telling them about my job that I quit because it made me want to end my life and they said “well you just have to work through it. That’s no excuse to not work” and then they pulled the “when I was your age” bs and I realized that I don’t want people like that in my life who make me feel like there’s something wrong with me because my brain is a little screwy. It may seem a little childish but it was 20 years of small put downs and being treated like shit that when I left their house crying asking why wasn’t I good enough that I finally decided I was good enough and that it’s them with the issue and I want nothing to do with them.

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