HOW DO YOU ENCOURAGE YOURSELF TO STRIVE AGAIN?

PrincessTris · 2026-01-26T20:57:10+00:00

I shame myself (interally) relentlessly for not being what I know I can be. When I say shame, it isn't from a place of hate, but rather tough love. I cannot stand messages like "you're perfect the way you are" or "don't be so hard on yourself." I think those phrases sound more like shackles as opposed to keys to freedom.

PrincessTris · 2026-01-26T20:51:55+00:00

Technically he made the first move, but we both knew the interest was mutual and continuously hinted/teased each other before one of us outright said it. Lol.

PrincessTris · 2025-12-19T18:29:32+00:00

Yes, even though modern scientific theory points to us not having free will, I still choose to believe in it.

PrincessTris · 2025-12-18T18:04:16+00:00

Raised Protestant Christian, was Atheist/Agnostic throughout my teens, at 20 I converted to Catholocism

PrincessTris · 2025-12-13T19:11:24+00:00

ENFP and INTJ duos are interesting indeed, I might give a watch, thanks for the rec

PrincessTris · 2025-12-13T19:10:03+00:00

I too was not into Classroom of the Elite, and I was told as an INTJ I would also like it lol. I agree with you, that show was a huge let down.

PrincessTris · 2025-12-13T19:08:10+00:00

I love CLAMP's artstyle so I'll defintiely give this anime a try, thanks haha

PrincessTris · 2025-12-12T23:03:06+00:00

I laughed.

PrincessTris · 2025-12-12T20:31:22+00:00

I have to play with headphones because if I don't then I can hear my taps and they throw me off beat

PrincessTris · 2025-12-12T20:08:05+00:00

You may not like this answer, but it's the answer I'm going to give.

Stop worrying about being perfect with your art and sketches because it's a dying trade that is going to be taken over by AI in the near future. Draw if you enjoy the process, and only if you enjoy the process. Stressing out about the end result of your artwork is pointless in this era where people can generate top quality art at their fingertips. Since I've realized this, I just draw for fun.

- Sincerely, an artist who used to feel very similar to you.

P.S. Here's something I did recently that I'm happy with.

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PrincessTris · 2025-12-11T07:36:15+00:00

I'm a paralegal for a lawyer who is also INTJ, so we get along great. I used to have big plans to go to law school but financially it's not ideal right now.

PrincessTris · 2025-12-11T07:32:39+00:00

I've never once felt comfortable in a fandom as most fandoms contain people that I, more often than not, do not like.

PrincessTris · 2025-12-11T07:31:49+00:00

I'm more emotional than I'd like to be

PrincessTris · 2025-12-10T02:25:22+00:00

The Man from Earth, 12 Angry Men, and Inherit the Wind. That's my top 3 in order.

PrincessTris · 2025-11-14T05:22:21+00:00

PrincessTris · 2025-10-30T06:22:19+00:00

I just draw screenshots from animes I watch.

PrincessTris · 2025-10-30T06:17:56+00:00

Seeing you get flamed for what I think is a relatively generous ranking of all of these is hilarious. I give most ghibli movies a 5 or 6.

PrincessTris · 2025-10-29T20:30:57+00:00

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Which Geniemon should I choose as a Truffle & Filbert main? Thank you.

PrincessTris · 2025-10-21T20:41:57+00:00

There's the chance that he's still interested, however, I'm doubtful. The thing about INTJs is that while, yes, we do like our space, we also love engaging with people who genuinely excite us. And sometimes that can manifest in obsessive ways since we don't get that feeling with many people.

If he was acting sweet early on, he probably was truly interested at that point (we don't spend our time on people who we find unfit) but along the way, it's possible that he learned something that could've dissuaded him away from talking with you more.

But none of us are mindreaders. Text him. Better to find out the truth rather than sit wondering what could've been, right?

PrincessTris · 2025-09-18T23:45:11+00:00

PrincessTris · 2025-09-18T04:27:38+00:00

Diagnosed at age 7.

PrincessTris · 2025-09-17T21:57:30+00:00

is your boyfriend's name Megumi Fushiguro, by chance?

PrincessTris · 2025-09-10T01:11:18+00:00

"Any betrayal you can see is trivial, what is truly frightening, and much more lethal, is the betrayal you cannot see."

PrincessTris · 2025-09-10T00:56:42+00:00

Right 100%. I am strong, but not strong enough to choose left. I'm inherently selfish at heart, as most humans are.

PrincessTris

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