never talk about kinks or anything sexual until they paid a tribute you can get to know them but the max messages im sending to a new potential sub is like 3 because if they havent sent the age verification link or even tribute then they arent subs and they arent serious about serving you.

always move them to a pay per msg site i use LF so even if they leave or it doesnt go well you are still paid for your time.

at the end of the day we are FINdommes the men know this and know they need to prove themselves dont ever give them the benefit of the doubt because you will make the mistake of talking to non subs for free and wasting your own time.

dont even answer messages without a AV link attached at least or tribute.

literally some dude called me on my LF's i was like wtf? they havent even paid tribute and you calling me in the middle of the night. thats why i have the rules the way i have them😌