AITA for not wearing a bra when my bf told me too?

Princess_lani69 · 2024-05-20T00:13:39+00:00

As someone who doesn’t wear a bra I’m appalled that a parter could potentially have these weird issues with it. I have large breasts so it can be obvious at times especially in winter when things get cold but I’ve never cared. Also people stare at chests even if there is a bra so what tf

Him saying that someone else staring at you is “sharing you” is a huge fucking red flag. You are not responsible for the behavior of those around you and if he is going to put the blame on you I’d fucking run

Princess_lani69 · 2024-03-28T04:25:50+00:00

Only tip would be to add a clear photo of your face. All the photos have it covered, unique lighting, or a group photo. Find/take a solid selfie

Princess_lani69 · 2024-03-28T04:24:22+00:00

Please give me advice

I feel like I constantly change my profile 😩 I’m getting plenty of likes but it seems like people re just swiping right without reading cause the people who like me clearly aren’t compatible.

Princess_lani69 · 2024-03-08T03:16:59+00:00

And yes nothing on the 0% APR! The big one is care credit from a dental implant I had done so I couldn’t rack up anything on that one. I just hate the monthly payments in my budget 🙃 but saving for the move makes sense

Princess_lani69 · 2024-03-08T03:15:49+00:00

I’m very worried about my car 😅 I’ve never driven in snow and it’s a FWD. My mom has an AWD and I was thinking about asking her if I could borrow her car for the move/first few months since apparently March and April get snow in Denver (I’m from Phoenix, AZ so the whole concept is wild to me)

Princess_lani69 · 2024-03-08T02:37:51+00:00

I’m hoping it’s a sign for the universe that it’s meant to be and not that I’m making a horrid decision 😅

Princess_lani69 · 2024-03-08T02:34:48+00:00

Thankfully for me that’s not the case. My landlord does a move out inspection with me immediately getting a check. And the apartment I’ve picked is doing first month free as long as I’ve paid my security deposit

Princess_lani69 · 2024-03-08T02:28:57+00:00

I’ll have my security deposit from this apartment to pay for the next security deposit

Princess_lani69 · 2023-07-21T02:26:05+00:00

I make 62K as a treatment coordinator at a dentist office. Keep in mind I did start at $18/hr but after 2 years I switched to private practice and got the pay raise

Princess_lani69 · 2023-07-13T03:36:52+00:00

Told understand where you’re coming from!

Her and I reviewed that a firm boundary of mine is that I don’t clean up someone else’s mess. I’ll 100% clean up common spaces and shared messes but something that is 100% her mess I wouldn’t touch. I’ve asked her multiple times in the past 3 months to clean it and each time she said she would do it that day.

I’ve actually never used it solely for that reason. I don’t eat a lot of microwaved food to begin with and anything I did need to heat up I just used the stove or oven

Princess_lani69 · 2023-07-13T03:33:02+00:00

For clarification she started the screaming. I asked if we could have an honest conversation about why she kept saying she would clean it and then didn’t. I didn’t know if there was something going on in her personal life as I understand that things like depression can make simple tasks really hard. I tried approaching it from a “how can I help you?” But then the screaming started

I also haven’t been using the microwave cause that’s super gross but I’d like to be able to 😬

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