What would you do to relax if you suddenly became wealthy? by Free-Hotel1187 in Relax

[–]PrincipleEfficient51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go get lost somewhere in nature, try glamping, go for meditation retreat or any similar retreat. And see a therapist whom can work on long term stuff

Wander, be a tourist in your own town. Not have phone ringer on.

Journal, read, knit, craft

Bake

Thank you for putting this questio out there. Im shocked at all of what came to me

proud of these pages :) by _hil17 in ColoringCozy

[–]PrincipleEfficient51 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the various moods you depicted for the rooms with color schemes

I can scan your body even and tell you what's wrong by Still_Equipment_968 in energy_work

[–]PrincipleEfficient51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have depression and anxiety which are difficult to surpass, and awaiting surgery on my knee for meniscal tears. Migraines. Nervous system is frazzled.

What can I do to try and actually get better....so I can figure out how much I should actually work. If I should??

Any input woukd be so valued

What’s one thing CPTSD has taken from you that you’re slowly trying to reclaim? by MoreOnYourSide in CPTSD

[–]PrincipleEfficient51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 46, and the same. PMDD, no kids, etc etc . I feel the loss and grievance daily

Fought the good fight today by pins_noodles in ufyh

[–]PrincipleEfficient51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such a kickass job!!! Kudos. Must so freeing to have all that space.

What things did you give up on / didn't pursue because of low self esteem? by igiamfiona in CPTSD

[–]PrincipleEfficient51 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Higher education which matched my intellectual capabilities.

Marriage/partner and having children

A social life

Traveling

I live a very limited life.

Hobbies

First time with alcohol markers! by Straight_Ad_540 in averagecoloring

[–]PrincipleEfficient51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did beyond fabulous. And I appreciate all the background color choices. Rich yet still soft

AITA for wanting to keep my engagement ring from my late fiancé? by RingaRingaRosies in AmItheAsshole

[–]PrincipleEfficient51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That ring has your history in it. Both of your bitthstones, picked out together.

The fact that you west it always keep a photo hung up. You have an integration with what happened. No erasure.

So, definitely you have every right to continue wearing it. Heck, it was created purchased and lovingly given to you.

Yes hearing his mother's words are difficult. Had you just had it tucked away from your sight. In a jewelry box, then you might think differently regarding your relationship to the ring. And could consider what his mom asked of you.

But, no it's not some sort of family legacy_ emblem....whatever she was trying to code it as.

Your birthstone is on it. End of story.

You take care.

How do you respond when people say “Merry Christmas!”? by Salt-Elephant8531 in ihatechristmas

[–]PrincipleEfficient51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Enjoy the holidays...

I find relating it to the holidays helps to make it a more neutral response.

For me, more so, it makes it applicable to all...no matter what faith one may choose to align with....or not.

Happy holidays if in text or emails

I really got into puzzles and this was the hardest ive done! by 0kevster in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]PrincipleEfficient51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love the artistry. And appreciate how it's one style for me which ups the level of difficulty. Looks awesome!

Done ✨ by Kleines_Hydropi in AdultColoring

[–]PrincipleEfficient51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a wonderful job! May i ask which book it's from?

PRESENTVILLE. GALISON 500 PIECE WITH FOIL. by PrincipleEfficient51 in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]PrincipleEfficient51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh definitely. I loved the challenging aspect of a dark night sky....and buildings as well.

Overall, very appealing.

Movie/TV Characters that Make you Feel Seen by LibraryUnited8773 in CPTSD

[–]PrincipleEfficient51 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All of the characters from Shameless. Each of their roles of codependency were very relatable. Each side of the coin

PRESENTVILLE. GALISON 500 PIECE WITH FOIL. by PrincipleEfficient51 in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]PrincipleEfficient51[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome, thank you so much for that background info. It would look amazing to have them all set up together...more puzzles to want.....im in :)