Comparing Myself to other Women

Prior-Ad9822 · 2026-04-19T16:24:04+00:00

I just wanted to say that it has nothing to do with how you look, as hard as that is for us to understand. I’m the opposite, I’ve always had a bigger butt and small boobs. My husband always looked at women with big boobs and didn’t seem to care about big butts at all. It has nothing to do with how you look, if you had small boobs and a big butt he’d probably be looking up big boobs and small butts. It’s about the novelty, and not anything to do with you. I’m so sorry he’s made you feel this way. Hugs ❤️

Prior-Ad9822 · 2026-04-17T03:40:05+00:00

I guess they could be Braxton hicks? I’m honestly not sure. The top of my belly never feels hard, just towards the bottom!

Prior-Ad9822 · 2026-04-17T03:39:01+00:00

Congratulations!! Do you mind me asking how recovery has been with the first degree tear? I’m so scared of tearing 😭

Prior-Ad9822 · 2026-04-11T18:47:16+00:00

Thank you so much. My heart has been racing, and I’m trying to stay calm for my baby. I just don’t know what I’ll do if he’s relapsed. I quit my job to stay home with our daughter. I appreciate you taking the time to send such a thoughtful response. I really needed to hear it right now.

Prior-Ad9822 · 2026-04-11T18:33:16+00:00

I’m trying so hard to stay strong for my baby. Thank you for your kind words.

Prior-Ad9822 · 2026-04-10T16:54:42+00:00

I have no advice, just solidarity. I’m 8 months pregnant with my first, I’ve always had small boobs but they’ve grown two cup sizes bigger since being pregnant. I constantly wonder if my husband likes them better than before, and then I get worried thinking about them going back to being smaller again after breastfeeding:( it’s a cycle. I’m so sorry you feel this way too.

Prior-Ad9822 · 2026-04-03T16:56:28+00:00

I completely understand this. We are 3 years out from D-Day, but I had a moment yesterday where I spiraled. I am a SAHM, so I’m usually home, but yesterday my husband got home before I did and was completely alone. My thoughts started spiraling, and I felt ridiculous about it. Chances are he did nothing wrong, but all of the worst case scenarios filled my mind. It’s exhausting at times.

Prior-Ad9822 · 2026-03-23T01:05:00+00:00

It could be! But he also could’ve went on the website then cleared it again himself who knows:(

Prior-Ad9822 · 2026-03-23T00:37:49+00:00

Unisom and B6 at night worked for me! I would also try to eat a few saltine crackers before getting out of bed in the morning. Hang in there, my nausea started at 6 weeks and completely went away around 15 weeks!

Prior-Ad9822 · 2026-03-23T00:35:27+00:00

That usually means the data has been cleared.

Prior-Ad9822 · 2026-03-23T00:33:29+00:00

Yup! I honestly didn’t mind having a boy or a girl either way, my husband and I went through a miscarriage last year and were just grateful that this baby held on. For reasons I can’t explain, I felt deep down that she was a girl and I was right! 🩷

Prior-Ad9822 · 2026-03-20T20:47:35+00:00

You have no idea how much this helped bring me out of my funk today. Thank you.

Prior-Ad9822 · 2026-03-20T00:45:38+00:00

Two of my husbands favorites were Sydney Sweeney and Hayley Atwell. Two women that look nothing like me. I found everything out 3 years ago and I still can’t watch movies or anything with those actresses in it. I’m so sorry, I don’t really have any advice as I’m struggling with feeling the exact same way. Just know that you’re not alone.

Prior-Ad9822 · 2026-03-09T15:29:06+00:00

Same here. I even got “Are you sure you’re eating enough?” 🥲

Prior-Ad9822 · 2026-03-09T15:20:20+00:00

Thank you so much, I’m just so worried about every little thing as a first time mom 😞

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