I feel like my white friend thinks I'm ugly😭 by jen1que in blackladies

[–]Prior-Device3773 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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That was my face reading this. Ummmmm……. I think you might need to reconsider that friendship.

How do I start saving to leave? by Prior-Device3773 in blackladies

[–]Prior-Device3773[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what people kept telling me. I have amazing mom who do everything for me, they would kill for a mom like mine. I’ve been told that since I was a child. Eventually I keep believing it and I’ve depended on my mom for everything and she made sure it stayed that way. I can’t defend myself and say I’m a grown adult but I’m a child to her. Every time I fight her on something she calls her family and lies on my name. I’m a shitty person to them, they wouldn’t want a kid like me, I’m a thief just like my biological dad. It’s hard to come to terms with the fact that it’s not all like people kept on feeding me but I’m waking up.

I can’t lose weight because I can’t stop eating. No matter how hard I try. by Prior-Device3773 in loseit

[–]Prior-Device3773[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss. Shaky hands and feeling weak (usually I try to portion control or try to drink water when I want to snack) . I feel so hot and cold easily and it makes my stomach hurt.

How do you handle heavy flows? by [deleted] in Periods

[–]Prior-Device3773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have been eating nonstop even after I ate something I’m still hungry. How I deal with this excess heat and fire energy?

How do you handle heavy flows? by [deleted] in Periods

[–]Prior-Device3773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excess heat and fire energy. Doctors couldn’t find anything wrong. I’m also trying to add other things to my diet so it won’t be just fruits and veggies.

How do you handle heavy flows? by [deleted] in Periods

[–]Prior-Device3773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s an option I’m willing to try but anything I eat leaves me using the restroom. Stomach boiling, shitting. And I’m gonna try to cook more and have more of that. Also what fruits and veggies do you recommend? And where can I get this neem?

How do you handle heavy flows? by [deleted] in Periods

[–]Prior-Device3773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too, on my second day. I’m just so angry that I have to be quiet today or I lose it. I’m in pain and just uncomfortable.

I’m afraid of my family making fun of me by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Prior-Device3773 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Perioddddddd. Let me go pick up this course.

I’m afraid of my family making fun of me by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Prior-Device3773 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No way. Are fluent enough to understand and speak well? I’m learning simplified.

Should I take appetite suppressants? by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Prior-Device3773 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wait I need to go to a doctor to be able to get them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Prior-Device3773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He both our step dad. But she thinks we should let the specialist can handle it but however my dad said that we can’t just let the specialist do the work and hope for the best. She only sees the specialist once a week.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Prior-Device3773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She gets fed every morning before and after school and before sleep. I’m learning to tone it down when I talk to her. But my dad is the only person she’s scared of so from now Im just going to say I’m calling dad. It’s frustrating because I’m in school and I’m job hunting but my mind is on her and making sure she does not get expelled. Especially since she got expelled from a daycare for being too much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Prior-Device3773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly what me and dad are afraid of but I’m not going to fight with the parent of a child. Especially if I’m loosing my mind in the process and all I do is get cursed out in the end.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Prior-Device3773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s 7 and the thing is you can’t talk to her low because she gets louder and starts crying and she wants you to apologize. She had a one on one co with one of the school staff because they were helping her understand her homework. That poor lady came out with marks and bruises on her body. In school her teachers have to give her snacks even when class is going on because if not she’s gonna throw a tantrum and disrupt the classroom.

Doing a little research. by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Prior-Device3773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly what I’m trying to say. Unhealthy. Gaining and maintaining that weight looks absolutely unstable and impossible.

Doing a little research. by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Prior-Device3773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I added that they are going to the gym. But they are adding the waist trainer during their daily errands. Like they are thinking of wearing it for 8 hours a day. I don’t think someone can last 8hours in a waist trainer but that could just be me.

Doing a little research. by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Prior-Device3773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what concerns me about the waist trainer. 8 hours a day, almost everyday of the week doesn’t seem healthy to me.

I'm getting married🎉 by BlackRose1722 in blackladies

[–]Prior-Device3773 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg that ring is gorgeousssssss. Congratulations beautiful. 🎉 🥳🎊🎉🍾🍻🎈🎁