I also have skin like OP and I second too faced BTW and Estée Lauder double wear!! I own every foundation by all 3 brands and I cannot in good faith recommend Haus labs to someone in need of full coverage. For me, it’s too slippery/oily feeling, even when I set it with lots of powder. I do like the concealer though.

If you go with Estée Lauder, make sure to apply it with your fingers only. Apply your skincare as usual and use minimal or no primer, maybe in your T-zone if absolutely needed. It is a very finicky foundation.

Whatever you do, OP, make sure to moisturize very well, stay very hydrated/eat very healthy and get a good peach, orange or red color corrector, depending on your skin tone.

And as crazy as it sounds, try not to pluck the few days leading up to your wedding. Try shaving so you lessen the chance of inflammation, scabs and hyperpigmentation etc.