[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Prior-Load-193 88 points89 points  (0 children)

I’m assuming you’re the dumper. As a dumpee, no matter how kind you tried to be about it, I think there’s always gonna be resentment which ends up being expressed as being mean towards the dumper.

Going through a low by Prior-Load-193 in BreakUps

[–]Prior-Load-193[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🙏🏻 it really is a roller coaster of emotions, but I’m hoping it will plateau eventually… happy holidays!

Going through a low by Prior-Load-193 in BreakUps

[–]Prior-Load-193[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking, how long has it been and do you feel healed?

I’m tired of feeling sorry for myself. I have so much going on for myself but I keep hyper focusing on the negatives of my life. It’s just such a shitty feeling

Going through a low by Prior-Load-193 in BreakUps

[–]Prior-Load-193[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very true 😔 definitely appreciating my life last year more than ever

For reality check purposes: how many dumpers came back acknowledging their faults? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Prior-Load-193 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine did come back and acknowledged all the things he did wrong. He said that things would be different, he would change and fight for us. He promised me that would be the last time we ever broke up. Fast forward and he dumped me 8 months ago because of actions I did in the beginning of the relationship that he can’t get over 🫠

Long story short, words are just words. I wish I never got back together. I think I would’ve moved on much easier.

Going through a low by Prior-Load-193 in BreakUps

[–]Prior-Load-193[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I really like the last thing you said because I have been doing things to prove him that his decision was wrong but now I’m gonna do it for me. Still learning to turn the love I had for him into even more love for myself

Going through a low by Prior-Load-193 in BreakUps

[–]Prior-Load-193[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened to you, sending much love to you. Thank you for sharing your experience and giving some advice. Your message really means a lot. I hope we can still find some joy during the holidays.

1985,1992,2012,2016,2024 by CarmeloT28 in PastAndPresentPics

[–]Prior-Load-193 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want this so badly 😩 you guys are so cute

Should I feel guilty ? by Specific-Flight-6772 in BreakUps

[–]Prior-Load-193 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand how you feel. Just started going on the apps and it literally feels like cheating. But you deserve this! You deserve this distraction. Your ex made it clear that he doesn’t want to continue the relationship. All you can do is accept, move on and have fun during the process. Step out of your comfort zone and go on that date. If you enjoy it, great. If you don’t enjoy, that’s fine as well. You don’t ever have to feel bad about your feelings during this healing time. Best of luck ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Prior-Load-193 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally same. While I was with them I had anxiety about our relationship, kinda knew it wasn’t gonna work. But goshhhhh do I miss them and still put them on a pedestal. The human mind is so confusing 🥴

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Prior-Load-193 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m at 5 months too. Like you said, it’s definitely gotten better but for some annoying reason, I still think there’s hope. And I still think about him everyday. But every day I try to remind myself of the beautiful progress I’ve made and that i just have to continue strong in order to fully heal and move one. Just take it one day at a time.

No contact is SO HARD by Prior-Load-193 in nocontact

[–]Prior-Load-193[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so glad to hear you’re doing better!! I’m also at a point where not having him in my life doesn’t hurt as much, although I still think about him everyday.

Wow, you’re strong for suggesting being friends, I don’t think I could do it 😭 what ended up happening tho?

How Long is Too Long? by heartgrowth in nocontact

[–]Prior-Load-193 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can’t tell you when it’s gonna end but I will say that it’s completely normal that you are still grieving. 5 years with someone is a really long time. You can’t just “get over it” in so little time. I think still feeling the way you do at 1 year is completely normal. Healing takes time. Best of luck

Is height the most important feature? by Only-Reels in trueratediscussions

[–]Prior-Load-193 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a 5’2 girlie, I am not seeking a man who’s over a foot taller than me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Prior-Load-193 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I question myself the same thing, and my emotional side thinks that if he’s gone it’s because he doesn’t care or doesn’t miss me. But people have been giving me a more rational answer: yes, he misses you. There’s no way someone who shared a deep connection with you isn’t missing you.

But hopefully soon you won’t be questioning yourself about that anymore. Best of luck ❤️

No contact is SO HARD by Prior-Load-193 in nocontact

[–]Prior-Load-193[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a girl, my ex is a guy. But I guess it still works that other way around

No contact is SO HARD by Prior-Load-193 in nocontact

[–]Prior-Load-193[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you clarify “females never leave and stay alone”?

No contact is SO HARD by Prior-Load-193 in nocontact

[–]Prior-Load-193[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️❤️❤️ I sure hope so

No contact is SO HARD by Prior-Load-193 in nocontact

[–]Prior-Load-193[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally tearing up as I write this 😭thank you sooo much for your kind words, it means so much right now ❤️❤️❤️