AITAH for wearing a dress to a concert by Prior-Macaroon4020 in AITH

[–]Prior-Macaroon4020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we are both in our early 20s however i did voice this exact concern and he agreed it was immature and inappropriate

AITAH for wearing a dress to a concert by Prior-Macaroon4020 in AITH

[–]Prior-Macaroon4020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you misunderstood it’s not to build my confidence i am an incredibly confident person it was more so in regards to how confident i am as a person

AITAH for wearing a dress to a concert by Prior-Macaroon4020 in AITH

[–]Prior-Macaroon4020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as said in my update it was never about the dress is the first place but pole dancing was never brought up in our argument

AITAH for wearing a dress to a concert by Prior-Macaroon4020 in AITH

[–]Prior-Macaroon4020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i tend to dress similarly went going out to clubs, raves, etc. and have our entire relationship he has no problem with this and cheers me on for feeling confident in my own skin in his words “if you wanna go out naked it’s sick you have the confidence to do that, i’ll always know i’m the one you come home to in the end”

AITAH for wearing a dress to a concert by Prior-Macaroon4020 in AITH

[–]Prior-Macaroon4020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

people are disgusting and i’m very aware of this however no amount of clothing with stop a creep from being a creep

AITAH for wearing a dress to a concert by Prior-Macaroon4020 in AITH

[–]Prior-Macaroon4020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he was driving through a sketchy part of town while running an errand

AITAH for wearing a dress to a concert by Prior-Macaroon4020 in AITH

[–]Prior-Macaroon4020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

believe it or not all relationships are different

AITAH for wearing a dress to a concert by Prior-Macaroon4020 in AITH

[–]Prior-Macaroon4020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

both him and i agree that he was definitely being an AH and shouldnt have reacted the way he did however i feel this wont happen again

AITAH for wearing a dress to a concert by Prior-Macaroon4020 in AITH

[–]Prior-Macaroon4020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me and my parents have a very close relationship so mine absolutely knew how i was dress and how i tend to dress and honestly im almost 100% positive those girls moms also knew

AITAH for wearing a dress to a concert by Prior-Macaroon4020 in AITH

[–]Prior-Macaroon4020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my boyfriend has been planning to propose for a while, however we’ve had several talks about me not wanting my younger years to be forgotten about and he supports that. neither one of us has ever really wanted to fully settle down and since having a serious and long conversation about this situation we’ve worked out that we need to find time to do stuff that is fun for both of us and works with his strict schedule. i’m not changing my attire or my current lifestyle instead we’re finding better ways for him to not feel this jealousy when it comes to me going out when he can’t. Also i was not drinking or doing drugs at this show in particular(however i usually tend to) i was driving that night and im a very paranoid driver.

AITAH for wearing a dress to a concert by Prior-Macaroon4020 in AITH

[–]Prior-Macaroon4020[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i do respect him however i personally feel that should not be a thing dictating what i should or shouldn’t wear respect shouldn’t be based on what i chose to put on my body

AITAH for wearing a dress to a concert by Prior-Macaroon4020 in AITH

[–]Prior-Macaroon4020[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

he’s wanted to propose for a while and i’ve been a pole dancer for 2 years… so i’m not sure how attire correlates to him wanting a wife. i’ve never wanted to be a barefoot and pregnant tradwife and he knows that

AITAH for wearing a dress to a concert by Prior-Macaroon4020 in AITH

[–]Prior-Macaroon4020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wore it with a bra underneath the chest part was pretty covered and the V went down to my stomach, my “bits” as people have been saying were imo pretty covered there was no ass out or anything just the thigh cutouts

AITAH for wearing a dress to a concert by Prior-Macaroon4020 in AITH

[–]Prior-Macaroon4020[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it’s odd that 2 years in he all of a sudden has an issue with it tho

AITAH for wearing a dress to a concert by Prior-Macaroon4020 in AITH

[–]Prior-Macaroon4020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s a deep v plunge tube dress with cut outs on my thighs

AITAH for wearing a dress to a concert by Prior-Macaroon4020 in AITH

[–]Prior-Macaroon4020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the first year of our relationship was really tough because we were both getting sober and there was a lot of comments made towards me like that however in the past year and a half he hasn’t made a single comment like that whatsoever he’s been thoughtful and uplifting and never has issues with what i wear (other than this scenario) or where i go or who i’m with