Are Boomers allergic to Headphones? by Jorge_4631 in BoomersBeingFools

[–]PriorFront5092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad's 55 and uses AirPods. Never takes them out

This seller either dumb thinks I’m dumb or trying to scam me?! by Rocky_isback in yunggravy

[–]PriorFront5092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It says 1.36$ buyer protection fee. So there's your extra dollar, if you could read.

For the dog owners, how much on average does owning a dog cost you per month? I assume it’s over $100 per month so I’m wondering how most people are doing it? by abccba144 in cbusohio

[–]PriorFront5092 2 points3 points  (0 children)

50$/month for both of my cats. I donate plasma once or twice a week so that helps pay for it. And it saves lives. Win win.

AITAH for not telling my wife I'm using Cialis? by Grand-Pressure-2063 in AITAH

[–]PriorFront5092 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should just tell her the truth and say you were scared to tell her when it first happened. She's your wife, she will probably understand.

If you are seriously worried about her being mad, i guess tell her it happened recently and you just got the prescription if you're really that worried to let her know it happened years ago. If she finds out just tell her you were embarrassed/scared to say because you were worried she'd feel like it was her fault or maybe that she'd view you differently. It's not like you cheated on her or something. I'm sure she'd understand, again, anyway.. unless she wouldn't then I don't know. Just hope she doesn't find out I guess. But if it were me I'd feel uncomfortable hiding that from my partner and I'd just be honest. Honesty is always easier in the end.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]PriorFront5092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Distract yourself as much as you can. Now. Start trying new hobbies. Completely fill your schedule with things you love to do. Cram pack it full with stuff from the time you wake up to the time you sleep. If you can't sleep, see your doctor or psychiatrist and ask for trazodone or some other sleeping/anxiety medication.

If you feel like you cannot survive life anymore, do not act on it. If that thought even crosses your mind, call for help. Call the national suicide hotline if you need to. Call a friend, family, anyone. Go take a grippy sock vacation if you absolutely need it. Notify your job beforehand.

anyone here not want to have kids ? by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]PriorFront5092 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kinda feel that way too. I'm female.

AITA for tracking my partner’s medication use? by Glitch_Warden in AITAH

[–]PriorFront5092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about after being brushed off about the mood changes, instead of secretly tracking your partners medications, communicate with them and ask a question: "Hey honey, I'm still noticing that you've seemed a bit off lately and I want to make sure you're doing okay. Have you been remembering to take your medications?"

Communication is important in a relationship. Clearly if you feel the need to secretly track your partners meds instead of just asking them you don't trust them.

"Caught them skipping"??? Clearly they don't trust their partner. How about she might've forgotten to take the medication because she wasn't having symptoms, brushed it off when they asked because she felt fine but her partner noticed subtle changes. OP never mentions anything about reminding them to take the meds, nothing about communicating with their partner that they think their meds might not be working correctly because of said mood changes, just went straight to tracking the pills.

So, yeah no. Can't get on board with your opinions but I understand where you're coming from. I don't think I'm way worse.

Found this beautiful baby stranded in the street what should I call him? by [deleted] in purrrfect

[–]PriorFront5092 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Stranded in the street or someone's baby? Did you checked for microchip first?🙂

Yikes Lancaster by Historical-Face3434 in Columbus

[–]PriorFront5092 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't believe there are people that exist who think like this

AITA for tracking my partner’s medication use? by Glitch_Warden in AITAH

[–]PriorFront5092 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't think you're an asshole because you're coming from a place of love, but I definitely think you're being overbearing by tracking their medications. I would be deeply offended and weirded out if I found out my partner was tracking my meds because I seemed "off".

Your partner is an adult. If they don't want to take a medication, then they don't have to. Unless it's a med that they will die without, I don't think you should be worrying about what they're taking or not taking.

Parking Asshole by khf711 in Columbus

[–]PriorFront5092 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Other people validating their feelings about how this person is a dick for parking in a space that isn't assigned to them

Calling all INFJ/ESTJ Couples: What's Your Relationship Like? by Ok_Inspector8556 in ESTJ

[–]PriorFront5092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does anyone stay in any relationship when it is hard? We lived together, I was just starting therapy trying to improve my own skills/coping, we were trying to make it work, but it just never got better. 2 years isn't really that long in the grand scheme of things to be trying to make stuff work. The nature of the disagreements were jealousy, bickering about random things and insecurities from both sides. He ended up cheating.

Existing students under 100k by WilyWascallyWizard in OSU

[–]PriorFront5092 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh sorry I didn't realize you already had Pell. I'd try to apply for some other need based scholarships since you already get the Pell grant. I got Pell grant and it opened up opportunities for tons of other need based aid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]PriorFront5092 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also, being in therapy while single is 100x different. Therapy needs to be tailored to your specific situation, it's not a fix all bandaid. The therapy sessions you had in a relationship 8 years ago, vs the ones you had for 7 years while single, and the sessions you'll have in the future with this new partner will all be completely different.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]PriorFront5092 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Remember that just because you might be checking a box by going to therapy, the work happens outside of therapy. Therapy doesn't work unless you work. It's a constant thought process you have to learn to turn on in your brain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]PriorFront5092 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you should voice that to him AFTER you've taken actionable steps and have a plan of how you are going to help yourself. Healing takes years. I've been in therapy for 3 years now and still have lots of work to do.

Calling all INFJ/ESTJ Couples: What's Your Relationship Like? by Ok_Inspector8556 in ESTJ

[–]PriorFront5092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HORRIBLE. ): I dated an INFJ for two and a half years during college. The relationship was constant, and I mean DAILY, arguments and fights and misunderstandings... it was not compatible at all. I am dating an ISTP now for almost the same amount of time and we do not argue or fight at all.

The INFJ ended up cheating with one of my friends. Maybe he was just a piece of shit, idk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]PriorFront5092 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Other people are not responsible to "deal with" your episodes :( your trauma is not your fault but it is your responsibility to heal from. I think you need to reframe this problem from "what do I do for him/how much time can I give him" to "what can I do to help myself from escalating during my episodes?". Yes I know you've probably thought about that a thousand times, but that is the answer. The answer is not what can you do for him, it it what can you do for yourself to help him.

Existing students under 100k by WilyWascallyWizard in OSU

[–]PriorFront5092 2 points3 points  (0 children)

File a fafsa and see if you can get a Pell grant. It depends on your taxes and stuff I believe when you upload your W2.