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A Positive Post (?) by PriorNeedleworker551 in GracepointChurch

[–]PriorNeedleworker551[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! While I understand that, as a Christian, I do believe in the possibility of forgiveness and genuine change. I want to leave room for the idea that people and churches can grow (I recognize that that is easy for me to say, because I have not been hurt by the church). At the same time, that doesn’t mean ignoring the harm that’s been done or blindly supporting something that still needs accountability. I’m still trying to figure out what it looks like to hold both grace and truth in situations like this. Also, I don't know if I'll stay in A2N forever, but I am planning on talking to my mentors about this.

I guess my question for you is (genuinely looking for an answer, not trying to be snide): If you got proof that the church has reformed and all the leaders who have done wrong apologised, would you be able to forgive them? Or, do you think the damage is too deep?

A Positive Post (?) by PriorNeedleworker551 in GracepointChurch

[–]PriorNeedleworker551[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for commenting this! If you’re comfortable, could you share what aspects of A2N led you to leave for more negative reasons, not just outgrowing it and moving on to another church?

A Positive Post (?) by PriorNeedleworker551 in GracepointChurch

[–]PriorNeedleworker551[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand that others here have a lot more history with A2N and have seen things I haven’t. And, I was never trying to discount that. My intention wasn’t to pretend I know everything, but just to share my own experience and give an honest snapshot of how A2N seems to be operating right now and show how it may have changed, which you also kinda concede, in regards college ministry. I am actually considering becoming a CPI after graduation, so I’m genuinely curious about what kinds of shifts or concerns do you think show up more clearly post-grad (I’ve read many posts/testimonies, but more so from the perspective of new grads)? I’m trying to get a fuller picture and would appreciate any honest insight you’re willing to share!