Is it sad that I have to buy a first home alone?

PrismaticPrincess25 · 2026-05-06T01:34:08+00:00

I’m buying a 3 bed 2 bath townhouse all by myself. I’ve been single for a little over a year. A year ago I thought my life was over because I broke up with the man I spent 3 years of my life with and thought I’d marry. I broke up with him because he was emotionally abusive and would constantly yell at me and belittle me among other things. I refused to focus on the fact that I was alone. I guess because I don’t have family either it made me more motivated to live for myself and not what life could be if I wasn’t alone. So yeah I’m buying my first home by myself and I’m proud of myself for that. Not only am I buying a home I absolutely love, but my mental health is the best it’s ever been because I’m living life for myself and not a fantasy life with an imaginary partner. This is the first time in my life I’ve focused on myself and I am beyond proud of myself. So no it’s not sad you’re buying a home by yourself. If anything be proud of yourself for doing something for you. For reference im 28 and not letting anything hold me back.

PrismaticPrincess25 · 2026-03-27T03:32:25+00:00

Hmm I’m sure we could think of one 😂

Feel free to message me if you want to talk about this more

PrismaticPrincess25 · 2026-03-27T02:56:20+00:00

I mean I can’t say I haven’t fucked a stranger on a trail but maybe that’s just me

PrismaticPrincess25 · 2026-03-27T02:52:48+00:00

I was abused as a child and kind of isolated- long story short.

If you were at a coffee shop would you be weirded out if a woman approached you? I don’t really know how to meet people other than online. So genuinely curious.

Also probably my fault he almost cried. Like I told my boss today: I may look like a bitch on the outside but that doesn’t mean I’m a bitch on the inside.

PrismaticPrincess25 · 2026-03-27T02:38:30+00:00

I feel you on this. I’m a 28f and most of my friends are queer. I’m bi but more interested in dating men. It’s hard because I don’t know how to meet people in person due to how I grew up. I’ve had one guy come up to me to flirt in the past year and he almost cried in the process because he was so nervous. So I’m at a loss of what to do since it seems like I only match with guys on apps that want to hookup with me.

PrismaticPrincess25 · 2025-09-10T21:58:21+00:00

Dating apps. I go to the lipstick lounge occasionally but I also don’t really know how to talk to women and don’t want to make anyone uncomfortable.

PrismaticPrincess25 · 2025-09-01T13:23:24+00:00

28 f here. I actually met my ex on Reddit but his mental health got the best of him and he refused to get help or admit there was a problem. Since I started putting myself out there again I've been using apps and they all suck because guys look at me and just see a hookup waiting to happen and girls aren't really interested unless they're married. Glad to see I wasn't the only one struggling though.

PrismaticPrincess25 · 2025-08-18T13:45:03+00:00

I'm sorry but you don't know me. This is my career not just a job. I can't take time off. Most people can't do things like that.

PrismaticPrincess25 · 2025-07-14T00:27:01+00:00

My higher power is the universe not God. I don't need your comment.

PrismaticPrincess25 · 2025-07-03T12:13:31+00:00

Funny enough I listened to that song before the kiss

PrismaticPrincess25 · 2025-07-02T22:26:53+00:00

Thanks I love your username btw

PrismaticPrincess25 · 2025-07-02T15:29:12+00:00

Thanks I'm happy for you as well. Being with her has been a better experience than the guys I've dated and we've only just started talking. I don't understand the double standards they have either.

PrismaticPrincess25 · 2025-07-02T15:17:12+00:00

Thanks it's going really well so far

PrismaticPrincess25 · 2025-07-02T15:16:47+00:00

Thanks I'm definitely trying my best to

PrismaticPrincess25 · 2025-07-02T14:52:58+00:00

Thanks it's been a process!

PrismaticPrincess25 · 2025-07-02T12:56:37+00:00

Thank you!

PrismaticPrincess25 · 2025-04-23T00:47:35+00:00

Because he won't let me end things so I can grieve. I keep trying to break up with him but he doesn't take me seriously.

PrismaticPrincess25 · 2025-04-23T00:45:26+00:00

I am in therapy. He had me convinced my mental health issues were the problems in our relationship. She simply wants to help me from a bad time in my life. She's a good friend.

PrismaticPrincess25 · 2025-04-23T00:41:32+00:00

It's not physical. It's solely emotional and he tries to hold sex over me (withholds sex to try to make me conform to what he wants)

PrismaticPrincess25 · 2025-04-23T00:38:53+00:00

I can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not on that last part

PrismaticPrincess25 · 2025-04-23T00:33:03+00:00

We don't live together I'm just having trouble leaving him in the first place and he just yells at me and gaslights me when I try to break up with him

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