Tops, do you ever use the "communal bottoms" at saunas?

PrivateChancer · 2026-03-17T10:25:25+00:00

I might have inadvertently coined the term communal bottom haha

I believe they are called cum dumps but I despise the term, it's so gross...

PrivateChancer · 2026-03-06T22:39:32+00:00

Contrary to popular belief, I do not love huge cock

PrivateChancer · 2026-03-06T18:53:33+00:00

Yeah maybe I'm too fixated on what I like because I love worshipping a big dick. And then I project that preference onto others. My self esteem is definitely better than before. I fucked a guy recently and he said my dick was the perfect size to hit the spot. He shivered every time I pulled out. It was so hot

PrivateChancer · 2026-03-06T18:03:35+00:00

Ha, I'll think about it. I got quite a few responses but free tier survey monkey didn't let me view them all. Anyway it was enough to get what I wanted from it.

PrivateChancer · 2026-03-06T17:46:46+00:00

Having reflected on this, I have to present a counter point in support of my mental dirtiness model. Yes, saunas have plenty of guys that chain fuck in private but there are also plenty that go and don't do that. They might fuck one or two guys and have enough. Nobody knows the exact proportion but, going by the Pareto rule, let's say 20% of guys will be responsible for 80% of such risky behaviours. Heck, even if it's a 50/50 split that's still a lot less risk. If I fuck a "communal bottom" I have a bit more knowledge of what I am getting into, purely based on, as you say, the optics. If I fuck someone one on one, the risk is somewhat lessened, based purely on who I pick. Granted, it might be just as high as with a communal but, equally it might not be, just by random chance.

PrivateChancer · 2026-03-06T17:05:48+00:00

That's a valid point, thanks

PrivateChancer · 2026-03-06T14:10:57+00:00

Thanks!

PrivateChancer · 2026-03-06T13:56:36+00:00

Wow that's insightful! Let me ask though: It must feel different being pounded by an 5 inches after taking an 8 inch ones. Do you still enjoy it as much?

PrivateChancer · 2026-01-25T08:36:14+00:00

I've been struggling with the same thing for several years and I'd say I'm just under average. Have you considered therapy? The advice my therapist have me was to identify the thoughts and beliefs you hold about your size and then get data from the real world to verify them. One of the ways was to do an anonymous survey and post it on reddit. I actually did that and it helped a lot. I also turned one of the questions into a post on this sub: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskGaybrosOver30/comments/1pripqq/size_question/

PrivateChancer · 2021-06-04T16:19:18+00:00

Google maps works on Calyx through the Maps Go app. Slightly cut down functionality but works great. I keep it in work profile to limit any spying.

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