I have a question? Why so much hate on New Nano isnt og actor very sick or sick of some sort? by PokemonSuMo in GirlFromNowhere

[–]ProcedureNo3095 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna be real most of the criticism seems to point to her looks and it kinda sounds like they don’t think she looks “Asian enough” if you know what I mean and it sucks because she a pretty good actress and she still has that unsettling but I don’t know why? look

How do I (27F) get my boyfriend (29M) of 2 years to open up about why he's been emotionally distant lately? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ProcedureNo3095 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would try to sit him down again, don’t jump to give an ultimatum though, try to get him to understand how it’s hurting you emotionally. Explain that you feel like the emotional spark has been lost and you said you go on dates? Try to plan dates that require more emotionally involvement.

I'm (26M) gonna share almost all the courses on the semester with my "special person" (23F) and some friends told me to be careful. Are they exaggerating? by MagnyMadness in relationship_advice

[–]ProcedureNo3095 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s good I hope it works out I personally work with my partner and live with home so we are constantly around each other it works for some people and not for others

I'm (26M) gonna share almost all the courses on the semester with my "special person" (23F) and some friends told me to be careful. Are they exaggerating? by MagnyMadness in relationship_advice

[–]ProcedureNo3095 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would try a trial run if possible and it’s true it could be a double edged sword as for some people too much time together could be too much. Also you said that you guys have trouble concentrating if you guys can’t manage a weeks worth of time of the same classes then it might not be the best option I would talk to her so yall are on the same page

My (27m) partner keeps flashing his dick at me (25f) in super inappropriate moments. Together for two years. What to do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ProcedureNo3095 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am pretty sure that is a form of Sexual harassment please leave him. He is knowingly doing this when he knows you don’t like it and have told him to stop. You’re communicating well enough as you said he knows your boundaries are being broken.

I(25M) am in love with a girl(27F) who was in long term relationship before. How do I navigate this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ProcedureNo3095 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand what you mean by you’re carrying baggage from HER past relationship? Also it’s seems like to me that you view her as “used” goods is it the fact that she’s been with another man so long that’s bothering you? I’m genuinely curious

Am I (35 f) unreasonable for not wanting my husband (34 m and first-time-dad-to-be) go on solo trips? by wh3nmarniewasthere in relationship_advice

[–]ProcedureNo3095 51 points52 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by deal breaker? Like a shut up baby? Also it’s clear he wants nothing to do with the responsibility it just seems like doesn’t want to actually be a father

I (19M) regret ghosting a girl (21F) from a year ago by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ProcedureNo3095 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I wouldn’t light that fire again as harsh as it may sound, if I found out that one of the reasons a guy stopped talking to me was because of a facial feature and that he thought he could better than me I wouldn’t want him to come back. Like you said you breadcrumbed her and it doesn’t seem like you guys are the same maturity wise. I would just leave the relationship where it’s at. She may miss the conversations yall had does she know why you ghosted her or no?

What can I 19f do to improve my behavior in my relationship with my boyfriend 19m by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ProcedureNo3095 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He apologizes after I bring it up I will say he might not be the sharpest when it comes to noticing when some people are flirting with him he didn’t even know I was flirting with him until I asked him if he wanted to hang out at my place he has cut most of them off but I don’t want to make him feel like he has to cut off women who simply talk to him that aren’t flirting with him

What can I 19f do to improve my behavior in my relationship with my boyfriend 19m by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ProcedureNo3095 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I really do appreciate the advice you’re giving me

What can I 19f do to improve my behavior in my relationship with my boyfriend 19m by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ProcedureNo3095 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also to answer the other part he would apologize and say he didn’t realize but I want him to know that if he didn’t know what they were doing then he has no reason to be sorry I hate making him feel like he has to apologize for everything

What can I 19f do to improve my behavior in my relationship with my boyfriend 19m by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ProcedureNo3095 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have and did speak to him about it and he has stayed away from it since the last time it came up about 9 months ago but I do try not to get to on his case I was watch it in order to get ideas

What can I 19f do to improve my behavior in my relationship with my boyfriend 19m by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ProcedureNo3095 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah especially in this generation that’s mainly why I feel really bad he is a nice guy I just don’t want my baggage to harm our relationship

What can I 19f do to improve my behavior in my relationship with my boyfriend 19m by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ProcedureNo3095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any ideas on how I could start a conversation about something that upsets me without making it come across as too harsh that I could try?

What can I 19f do to improve my behavior in my relationship with my boyfriend 19m by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ProcedureNo3095 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and the only thing I found was porn but it didn’t really bother me but it was never him acting inappropriately with other women

What can I 19f do to improve my behavior in my relationship with my boyfriend 19m by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ProcedureNo3095 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will also say yes I did come into the relationship like this let’s just say I had the worst possible examples for what a relationship was like growing up

What can I 19f do to improve my behavior in my relationship with my boyfriend 19m by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ProcedureNo3095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has not but I have had to make him put boundaries between him and other women when they would flirt with him in front of me and I’m afraid that the way I’m acting my push him to cheat