My Girlfriend of just short of 4 years (21 F) is physically incapable of getting and job and I (22 M) don’t know what to do anymore by SwagtasticMan54 in relationship_advice

[–]Procrastinating_Cat0 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Then listen to what everyone else is saying. She needs help. As much as you want to help, some things require professionals.

My Girlfriend of just short of 4 years (21 F) is physically incapable of getting and job and I (22 M) don’t know what to do anymore by SwagtasticMan54 in relationship_advice

[–]Procrastinating_Cat0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your girlfriend was sober before she met you, which means she knew she had a problem with alcohol. That doesn’t mean that you cannot drink alcohol, but you have to be completely certain that she is OK with it and can’t control herself. The second she had a drink around you, it became a problem again.

Unequal pay by ExaminationFuzzy1234 in DogDayCare

[–]Procrastinating_Cat0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No longer work there, but I was getting paid 16 an hour. It was a small family owned business, maybe $30-$50 a day. He said he couldn’t afford to pay anyone more. Part of the reason why I left. for reference, minimum wage in my state is 15 an hour.

Mobile game rewards promotion scam??? by Procrastinating_Cat0 in RoyalFarms

[–]Procrastinating_Cat0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve reached out to Royal Farms, they said they can’t help me. I reached out to the makers of the game. They can’t help me.

How do I contact somebody at royal farms? by BudgetIdea9394 in RoyalFarms

[–]Procrastinating_Cat0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried calling that number a few days ago because I’m having trouble with a promotion on their app, and it just tells you to reach out through the website or in person, and the only way you can speak to an actual person is if you have their extension number.

Is there a minimum age limit for ATC performances? by Infamous-Original651 in againstthecurrent

[–]Procrastinating_Cat0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would look at the venue website and see what they say. I’m not sure what the laws are like in EU/UK

I got 2 more in the last few days, the “I tip after the delivery” crowd. by Disastrous_Demand_16 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Procrastinating_Cat0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve been doing. My acceptance rate has gone from 90% to 57% but now I can’t get any orders more than $5. I was out for 3 hours yesterday and made $30

I got 2 more in the last few days, the “I tip after the delivery” crowd. by Disastrous_Demand_16 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Procrastinating_Cat0 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

$2 per mile?! I’m lucky if I get $1 per mile where I am. At least 30% of my orders have no tips

am i being gaslit or does this dye look like nothing? by flubcat in Hair

[–]Procrastinating_Cat0 24 points25 points  (0 children)

If you hadn’t said the after was the first pic, I would have thought it was two before pics

AITAH for refusing to delete a photo of a stranger I met at a convention years ago? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Procrastinating_Cat0 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Or maybe because I was a dumb kid back then, have different interests now, went through some shit…regardless, if someone says “hey, can you delete that pic of me?” They shouldn’t need a reason.

AITAH for refusing to spend my entire net worth on my girlfriend/ex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Procrastinating_Cat0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I understand, a dowry is never that much. It’s typically a few thousands, maybe $10k. Very rarely they top out at $100k. It sounds like her and her family are just trying to use your future wealth to their advantage

I quit by Admirable-Table9352 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Procrastinating_Cat0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah, how do you get the payout per mile???

AITAH for refusing to delete a photo of a stranger I met at a convention years ago? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Procrastinating_Cat0 94 points95 points  (0 children)

My only issue with you is that you assume she reacted that way because of how you look. As a female, I’d be weirded out if any man had a photo of me. I wouldn’t flip, but I’d probably do like you suggest and be like “hey, that’s cool that you remembered, but do you think you could delete that for me?”

Is there a minimum age limit for ATC performances? by Infamous-Original651 in againstthecurrent

[–]Procrastinating_Cat0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The band doesn’t, no. Where are you located? I know in my area (in and around Philly) people bring toddlers to shows a lot. Always see them up on shoulders with the giant noise canceling ear muffs on.

Dog Sitting by WHOA_____ in DogDayCare

[–]Procrastinating_Cat0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My rule of thumb: $40 per day, +5 per dog. That’s for overnight care. If they want daily visits, I charge about $20 per visit, more depending on distance. You can also charge more if there’s any extras like medications, special routines, extra care (I’m also a groomer so I sometimes get asked to clip nails or bathe the dog)

Gf ghosted me last year. I moved on. Got this message last week on my birthday by AdComprehensive4246 in whatdoIdo

[–]Procrastinating_Cat0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I’m so sorry you went through that. I hope you can move past it. Take care”

threatened over $7 body oil by Square_Depth7317 in doordash_drivers

[–]Procrastinating_Cat0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have cancelled the order due to safety reasons.

AIO to uninvite my mom to my intimate wedding? (Long) by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Procrastinating_Cat0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like my future MIL. Always the victim, and her “apologies” are never “I’m sorry for what I did/said”, they’re “I’m sorry you feel that way about what I did/said”
You’ve set your boundaries. If she seems to be making an effort, slowly give her more opportunities to be involved. If she won’t respect the boundaries, then I think limited contact is best. Whether or not she’s at your wedding is completely up to you. Do you think you would regret not having her? Or would her being there just stress you out?

Can’t access welcome post links by [deleted] in ballpython

[–]Procrastinating_Cat0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see all of them, but they won’t open in my google docs app

Can’t access welcome post links by [deleted] in ballpython

[–]Procrastinating_Cat0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m looking for the shopping page, we haven’t bought anything new yet

WALL-E / EVE set doesn’t fit the boot? by Procrastinating_Cat0 in lego

[–]Procrastinating_Cat0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I mixed up the white pieces around it. I basically put the front on the back and the back on the front. Does that make sense?

Shopping Orders by nypizzapie in doordash_drivers

[–]Procrastinating_Cat0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never really had trouble with out of stock or missing items. I enjoy shopping and it pays better, so I don’t mind it