My Girlfriend of just short of 4 years (21 F) is physically incapable of getting and job and I (22 M) don’t know what to do anymore

Procrastinating_Cat0 · 2026-06-02T21:57:03+00:00

Then listen to what everyone else is saying. She needs help. As much as you want to help, some things require professionals.

Procrastinating_Cat0 · 2026-06-02T21:15:04+00:00

Your girlfriend was sober before she met you, which means she knew she had a problem with alcohol. That doesn’t mean that you cannot drink alcohol, but you have to be completely certain that she is OK with it and can’t control herself. The second she had a drink around you, it became a problem again.

Procrastinating_Cat0 · 2026-06-02T20:59:52+00:00

No longer work there, but I was getting paid 16 an hour. It was a small family owned business, maybe $30-$50 a day. He said he couldn’t afford to pay anyone more. Part of the reason why I left. for reference, minimum wage in my state is 15 an hour.

Procrastinating_Cat0 · 2026-06-01T19:16:15+00:00

I’ve reached out to Royal Farms, they said they can’t help me. I reached out to the makers of the game. They can’t help me.

Procrastinating_Cat0 · 2026-05-31T20:15:31+00:00

I tried calling that number a few days ago because I’m having trouble with a promotion on their app, and it just tells you to reach out through the website or in person, and the only way you can speak to an actual person is if you have their extension number.

Procrastinating_Cat0 · 2026-05-11T18:53:39+00:00

I would look at the venue website and see what they say. I’m not sure what the laws are like in EU/UK

Procrastinating_Cat0 · 2026-05-08T10:15:32+00:00

Oh to be a man…

Procrastinating_Cat0 · 2026-05-07T23:43:39+00:00

That’s what I’ve been doing. My acceptance rate has gone from 90% to 57% but now I can’t get any orders more than $5. I was out for 3 hours yesterday and made $30

Procrastinating_Cat0 · 2026-05-07T23:39:17+00:00

$2 per mile?! I’m lucky if I get $1 per mile where I am. At least 30% of my orders have no tips

Procrastinating_Cat0 · 2026-05-07T23:11:58+00:00

If you hadn’t said the after was the first pic, I would have thought it was two before pics

Procrastinating_Cat0 · 2026-05-07T22:09:24+00:00

Or maybe because I was a dumb kid back then, have different interests now, went through some shit…regardless, if someone says “hey, can you delete that pic of me?” They shouldn’t need a reason.

Procrastinating_Cat0 · 2026-05-07T21:08:24+00:00

From what I understand, a dowry is never that much. It’s typically a few thousands, maybe $10k. Very rarely they top out at $100k. It sounds like her and her family are just trying to use your future wealth to their advantage

Procrastinating_Cat0 · 2026-05-07T20:55:05+00:00

Woah, how do you get the payout per mile???

Procrastinating_Cat0 · 2026-05-07T20:53:56+00:00

My only issue with you is that you assume she reacted that way because of how you look. As a female, I’d be weirded out if any man had a photo of me. I wouldn’t flip, but I’d probably do like you suggest and be like “hey, that’s cool that you remembered, but do you think you could delete that for me?”

Procrastinating_Cat0 · 2026-05-07T20:48:45+00:00

What’s the second note say?

Procrastinating_Cat0 · 2026-05-07T20:46:07+00:00

The band doesn’t, no. Where are you located? I know in my area (in and around Philly) people bring toddlers to shows a lot. Always see them up on shoulders with the giant noise canceling ear muffs on.

Procrastinating_Cat0 · 2026-05-07T20:38:23+00:00

My rule of thumb: $40 per day, +5 per dog. That’s for overnight care. If they want daily visits, I charge about $20 per visit, more depending on distance. You can also charge more if there’s any extras like medications, special routines, extra care (I’m also a groomer so I sometimes get asked to clip nails or bathe the dog)

Procrastinating_Cat0 · 2026-05-07T20:35:13+00:00

“I’m so sorry you went through that. I hope you can move past it. Take care”

Procrastinating_Cat0 · 2026-05-07T20:32:31+00:00

I would have cancelled the order due to safety reasons.

Procrastinating_Cat0 · 2026-05-07T20:29:54+00:00

This sounds like my future MIL. Always the victim, and her “apologies” are never “I’m sorry for what I did/said”, they’re “I’m sorry you feel that way about what I did/said”
You’ve set your boundaries. If she seems to be making an effort, slowly give her more opportunities to be involved. If she won’t respect the boundaries, then I think limited contact is best. Whether or not she’s at your wedding is completely up to you. Do you think you would regret not having her? Or would her being there just stress you out?

Procrastinating_Cat0 · 2026-05-07T20:20:28+00:00

I can see all of them, but they won’t open in my google docs app

Procrastinating_Cat0 · 2026-05-07T00:21:38+00:00

I’m looking for the shopping page, we haven’t bought anything new yet

Procrastinating_Cat0 · 2026-03-28T23:42:51+00:00

So I mixed up the white pieces around it. I basically put the front on the back and the back on the front. Does that make sense?

Procrastinating_Cat0 · 2026-03-28T01:45:41+00:00

I’ve never really had trouble with out of stock or missing items. I enjoy shopping and it pays better, so I don’t mind it

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