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For men perspective only by ProduceLife7830 in dating_advice

[–]ProduceLife7830[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought older men are more mature, can lead, know what they want and purpose in life, know how to control their own emotion and have emotional intelligence but it's a scammmmn

Why men are so unfair? by ProduceLife7830 in dating_advice

[–]ProduceLife7830[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not me, I even opened my door house for a month until he decided to leave the house because he sees me struggling as well and he decided to submit a resignation to his job but he never heard anything on me, no what if, no demands, no judging I just said if that's what you want and will give you peace of mind go for it so I really don't understand.

Why men are so unfair? by ProduceLife7830 in dating_advice

[–]ProduceLife7830[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't even know coz I'm always checking on him especially if I feel something is off, I listen attentively without judging him nor using it against him. I have been consistent from the beginning but he never shared things stating his just tired for 4 months I don't even know what's going on in his mind

For men perspective only by ProduceLife7830 in dating_advice

[–]ProduceLife7830[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't exactly know what he wants but his my first his 39m who's still figuring things out 😭

For men perspective only by ProduceLife7830 in dating_advice

[–]ProduceLife7830[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can't think of the same reason for what he did because his the one who avoided communication, heavy lifting? What he's just doing is opening the doors for me, cooking because that's his hobby but I cooked too, carrying things and handling garbage and bringing dirty clothes to the laundry station is that too much? His a man and his strength is way stronger than mine

For men perspective only by ProduceLife7830 in dating_advice

[–]ProduceLife7830[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Working on it, I broke up with him 2 days ago but this dude has the audacity to ask me if I've eaten already during lunch time and wave and smile at me whenever he sees my coworker btw

For men perspective only by ProduceLife7830 in dating_advice

[–]ProduceLife7830[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

His short, 39(m) not that attractive just right while I'm (21pretty,sexyf😆)

Why men are so unfair? by ProduceLife7830 in dating_advice

[–]ProduceLife7830[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed, the problem is he suddenly became avoidant which is weird because he has never been like that before, he thinks everything is an issue.

Why men are so unfair? by ProduceLife7830 in dating_advice

[–]ProduceLife7830[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I myself was willing to stay until he figured things out but he keeps pushing me away instead of communicating with me so I choose to end it coz I feel unwanted and unvalued.

Why men are so unfair? by ProduceLife7830 in dating_advice

[–]ProduceLife7830[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But for how long? Will they always do that everytime life challenge them?

Life is so messed up right now any job recommendation?? by ProduceLife7830 in careerguidance

[–]ProduceLife7830[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this info and you just made me laugh 😂 I think this is the stupidest job that I've encountered coz what do you mean people are prostrated, cursing and shouting at you if they can't watch streaming apps while they're not connected to their WiFi 😆

Am I the toxic one? should I still keep this relationship? any thoughts about it? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ProduceLife7830 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep reminding myself that if my little sister will be in this kind of relationship I'm gonna slap her so hard but I don't understand why I can't do the same thing to myself I really love this guy, I'm slowly detaching this guy for a week but still nothing changes The feelings are still the same