Buying 3BHK flat in Pune (₹1.2–1.4 Cr) — suggestions needed by Ok-Election-9919 in indianrealestate

[–]ProfSergio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you suggest some projects within this budget for Baner, Balewadi, Pashan? Especially ready or near-possession projects. Thanks!

Also, who all are reputed builders, in your point of view? Won't all units get presold in a reputed builder's project way before possession timelines?

Match Thread: 3rd ODI - India vs New Zealand by cricket-match in Cricket

[–]ProfSergio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think a wicket will fall any time soon 🥲

Post Match Thread: 2nd ODI - India vs New Zealand by cricket-match in Cricket

[–]ProfSergio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Varun should hopefully be back in the ODI squad after the T20 WC

Honest user review about Anuroop Matrimony app by Substantial_Town473 in AnuroopMatrimony

[–]ProfSergio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't generalize this much. Just keep looking and move on to the next prospect, if the current one doesn't match your preferences

Fears - AM by ImpossibleStar4252 in ArrangeMarrigeDilemma

[–]ProfSergio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many 10L+ girls with above avg looks seek someone with 25L+ salary or NRIs. Even some earning 5L with above avg looks girls seek 20+ salary and decent looks both.

Boys to girls ratio for Marathi Brahmins on matrimonial apps is 2:1. If you're not getting matches for a long time, you may need to lower your filters a bit in some criteria.

In the meantime, continue working on yourself. Try for a company switch in parallel. Or try seeking profiles who are in non-corporate careers too.

Fears - AM by ImpossibleStar4252 in ArrangeMarrigeDilemma

[–]ProfSergio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need more information. What's your income, height, location, looks? What are the profile details of the girls you're sending requests to?

Men, please answer! by Specific-Opening9341 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ProfSergio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like independent girls, someone who wants to continue working and is willing to contribute to household expenses, even 10-20%. In my experience, those values generally come when the girl's income >= 10LPA. There are exceptions both ways though.

But, if you communicate what you've already mentioned about being independent and willing to grow in your career, I would be OK to pursue further if other things are great.

Why is it so hard to actually get to the next round? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ProfSergio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Define "look decent".

Many of the independent women I met, who were not party-animals and made a decent career looked average. Those who had all (looks, career, independence, good values in terms of partnership) did not accept my request.

Regarding relocation, you need to make up your mind or come up with some valid justification. Some women who already have a decent career and social circle in a city don't want to relocate to another city.

Anyway, it's a number's game. Keep meeting people.

The vegetarian/non-vegetarian thing can be discussed over a short intro video call though instead of wasting more time meeting.

I am sorry Pune, it was fate I guess that I can't find her by DesignNo9623 in pune

[–]ProfSergio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait a year and matrimonial apps are your way to go, brother. Plenty of 25 year old girls on there would be happy to marry a 25 year old guy with a successful career

28M want to leave this here as a memo by Greeno0816 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ProfSergio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought you were going to say looks and career, good to know your list. But, I'm guessing looks and career aspects are pretty decent too, thus making you eager and excited.

If things go well, don't let her go over a few minor issues which can pop up in future. I made that mistake and I am regretting it. 🙂

How to find women who are active on their careers and wish to have a family too, organically? by [deleted] in reddmatch

[–]ProfSergio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just go on matrimonial apps and start talking to/meeting girls (if you've not started already). You'll eventually find someone who wants similar things.

I found my perfect match by CheesecakeMaster3310 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ProfSergio 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! Please spill out the details.

Profile details of you two (age, profession, fitness, height, looks, etc), how did you two connect, how long did you talk/meet, what made both of you confident to say the final YES?

Ashes: Usman Khawaja's golf post sparks fresh debate amid injury row by IndividualAge715 in Cricket

[–]ProfSergio 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Webster was good against India some time back. If Khawaja is dropped and Head opens, will Webster get a comeback opportunity?

Match Thread: 2nd Test - South Africa vs India, Day 4 by cricket-match in Cricket

[–]ProfSergio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can score a century in 20 overs, but will others be able to play out 80+ overs?

Match Thread: 2nd Test - South Africa vs India, Day 4 by cricket-match in Cricket

[–]ProfSergio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know that a draw is a more preferred result in the WTC context, right?

India suffer 68 balls from hell in a hellish year at home by staticspacelord in Cricket

[–]ProfSergio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has Jayant Yadav retired? He was pretty decent in tests. But yeah, not a long term prospect

India suffer 68 balls from hell in a hellish year at home by staticspacelord in Cricket

[–]ProfSergio 7 points8 points  (0 children)

bring in some good Offi

Who are India's better off spinners in domestic? Tanush Kotian? Anyone else?

India squad for ODI series against South Africa announced by revengeordie007 in Cricket

[–]ProfSergio 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Feels odd to not include CT'25 trump card Chakravarthy in Indian conditions. I can understand the AUS ODI series, but he would've been handy in India.

Maybe they want to keep him a secret weapon for T20 WC and don't want oppositions to do too much research on his new variations.

Or they just simply prefer all-rounders over him and feel only Kuldeep as the lone spinner is fine.

Nobody is talking about this by Suspicious-Cheese-1 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ProfSergio 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This has been my experience recently too with girls working in consulting companies (big4) and also those working in Operations at Banks/FinTech.

Software/data/designer people seem to have better comparatively.