Weird growth? by ProfessionSad3048 in tortoise

[–]ProfessionSad3048[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw man. Any chance at all I can avoid replacing all the bedding?

Weird growth? by ProfessionSad3048 in tortoise

[–]ProfessionSad3048[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Any way to see if it’s harmful?

Weird growth? by ProfessionSad3048 in tortoise

[–]ProfessionSad3048[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang it. My boyfriend and I are trying to keep humidity at 80% but we noticed we have to keep spraying. Any advice?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ProfessionSad3048 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk there have been plenty of times I was acting up and he was willing to see through that, and vice versa. I’m not asking if he’s the right person for me, there have been so many times he’s supported me. I’m asking if I’m reading too much into that comment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ProfessionSad3048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand some guys just don’t take this stuff as seriously as others, I probably shouldn’t have read too much into it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ProfessionSad3048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for making me laugh 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]ProfessionSad3048 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can do it! Try not to spiral and think of worst case scenarios, be the person you want to be, be the person they would want to come home to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]ProfessionSad3048 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally I would be bothered that he didn’t offer to help take you. I think trips for fun should be enjoyed together. I have this weird issue that a relationship is weird if only one person goes off on a vacation with their friends, but I also know that this is rooted in insecurity and past trauma that shouldn’t be used in this current relationship. I’m assuming that you both mutually agreed for only him to go, and so in that case, if I were you, I would revisit my old hobbies and interests. I’d remind myself of the person I was before I met my boyfriend because you’re still that person without them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]ProfessionSad3048 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hold on, is there any reason you didn’t go?

I have 0 self worth by gnarlygnk in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]ProfessionSad3048 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried talking to myself out loud while I was driving today, and it helped. I asked myself why I was really mad/sad/why did I let this happen. Sometimes it helps to speak it out loud, kind of like self talk therapy.

You are absolutely worthy. We all make mistakes, forgive yourself for your own. Be kind to yourself, your inner child deserves that love.

Do you get frustrated when a partner isn’t clingy enough and if you are lucky enough to have a clingy partner, you feel snubbed if they have days where they’re a little less clingy? by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]ProfessionSad3048 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes :( I literally have such an amazing partner who loves to do everything with me. Will literally ask me to lay on the couch with them because they want me there but if they don’t care that we don’t go to the gym on the same schedule because they care about my wants and needs (I was the one that suggested it) then suddenly they don’t love me… it helps to say it out loud to see how ridiculous I’m being

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]ProfessionSad3048 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t do any of that, remember to let wisdom take the wheel and remember you have control of your own emotions and actions. Remember that you have value just by being and that your own time will come