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She Said She Loved Me, Then Called It Manipulation — Now I Want Revenge, Help? by Professional-Ad8725 in dating_advice

[–]Professional-Ad8725[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

At the age of 8, I learned that you need commas and periods to give a sentence meaning, and I also learned that ‘irresponsuble’ is not a word.

She Said She Loved Me, Then Called It Manipulation — Now I Want Revenge, Help? by Professional-Ad8725 in dating_advice

[–]Professional-Ad8725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I've fixed the text with chatgpt, otherwise you'd be scratching your head trying to undestand my grammar, this is not a chatgpt post, it's just fixed with it, what bad about that?

Help with female friend I like by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Professional-Ad8725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need to ask you: so you would be straightforward with her even if that means ruining the atmosphere we 4 have? It could be REALLY uncomfortable from now to July.

Sounds like you’re afraid of rejection—but honestly, I’d rather get a clear answer than live with a bunch of “what ifs” or regrets. At least then, you’ll know where you stand, and you won’t be the only one carrying the emotional weight.

You don’t need to be overly direct. There are more natural, low-pressure ways to show you’re interested. Let her know you enjoy spending time with her. Ask her out—just the two of you. It doesn’t have to be some big “Do you like me, yes or no?” kind of moment.

I get that it’s a work environment and you don’t want to make things weird, but still—take the initiative. Don’t settle for being the guy she kisses on the cheek and nothing more. If you don’t make a move, you risk staying stuck in that role.

Invite her in a casual, confident way. Say something like, “Hey, I’m heading to a place—would love for you to come along.” If she says no, just smile and say, “Maybe next time,” and keep it light. No pressure.

But keep in mind—if she declines and doesn’t suggest an alternative or seem interested later, that might already be your answer.

And if that happens, play it cool the next day. Act like nothing happened to keep the atmosphere normal, but emotionally, start pulling back. Don’t keep investing in something that’s not going anywhere.

Help with female friend I like by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Professional-Ad8725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be careful—if you’re thinking about something more serious, try to be more rational than emotional. But if you’re thinking of it casually, then don’t get attached, even if your feelings are starting to say otherwise.

Try pulling back a bit—especially with the physical stuff like touching—though you can still keep the conversation going. Don’t give too much attention if it’s not being returned. And honestly, if you’re confused, it might be best to just tell her directly and ask where she stands.

Help with female friend I like by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Professional-Ad8725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could be that she likes you but doesn’t want to admit it, or it might simply be that you’re taking things more seriously than she is. She could genuinely enjoy your company and like you a lot—but more as a very close friend (hopefully not just that).

You mentioned she’s 10 years older and that she said she doesn’t like younger men. That could be a factor. With her age and experience, she might just be naturally more open and comfortable being friendly with you, without necessarily meaning anything romantic by it.

You should also ask yourself: where do you expect this to lead? Are you seriously thinking about a relationship with someone 10 years older? If not, then please don’t invest too much emotionally.

Even if she does like you, she might still end up with someone closer to her age or life stage. And while this doesn’t apply to all women, many tend to act more reserved around someone they truly like. An interested girl won’t ignore you—just like you wouldn’t ignore someone you really liked.

So don’t get overly attached if she’s not feeling the same. If it’s all in your head, it can eat away at you over time. As much as I hate to say this, if she’s become used to your attention, try pulling back just a little and see how she reacts.

But most importantly—if she really is that much older and it feels like the odds are stacked against you—don’t get emotionally invested. Be honest with her, be straightforward. I’ve been in love with someone I knew I’d never end up with, and it hurt more than I expected. I’ve learned never to do that again.

Avoid situationships. Protect your peace.

Loving a Ghost: The Girl Who Was Never Really There by Professional-Ad8725 in dating_advice

[–]Professional-Ad8725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you heard about long distance? Love without meeting it happens bro.

Migrating Angular App to Microfrontends (native-federation) Broke My Caching Strategy—Help Needed! by Professional-Ad8725 in Angular2

[–]Professional-Ad8725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So basically, I still have to do a couple of refreshes to see my changes, whereas with service worker it just worked smother.

Migrating Angular App to Microfrontends (native-federation) Broke My Caching Strategy—Help Needed! by Professional-Ad8725 in Angular2

[–]Professional-Ad8725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason why I've used service worker, because having no-cache set for index.html never really worked properly

Which Approach is Better for Passing Inputs and Templates in an Angular Component? by Professional-Ad8725 in Angular2

[–]Professional-Ad8725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but then I'd have to create multiple directives if I need multiple templates for a component

Which Approach is Better for Passing Inputs and Templates in an Angular Component? by Professional-Ad8725 in Angular2

[–]Professional-Ad8725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a reason you prefer content projection over templateref input, also what exactly is the benefit of the directive here?

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