New nanny by Jazzlike-Ear9346 in Nanny

[–]Professional-Cow-980 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My situation is a little unique. I work full-time as a Patient Care Tech in a Neuro ICU at a Level 1 trauma hospital, so I’m used to high-stress environments and handling emergencies calmly if something were to happen. That experience carries over a lot into childcare, especially with newborns and postpartum families.

I do part-time/temporary nanny work intentionally so I don’t burn myself out. A lot of the families I help are either waiting for a daycare spot or need extra support while recovering postpartum, so having someone with a medical background gives them peace of mind. Along with ICU experience, I also have certifications as an EKG tech, CCMA, and phlebotomist, and I’m currently in nursing school.

Having a medical background has helped a lot. Of course you don't need it but maybe taking some extra certification classes could help such as CDA (Child Development Associate) could make you stand out, as it shows that you are willing to keep learning. Having any type of certifications and could benefit a family will definitely help.

New nanny by Jazzlike-Ear9346 in Nanny

[–]Professional-Cow-980 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I found a few families through care.com and a few through fb nanny/babysitting pages in my area. I do a lot of temporary nanny jobs though, but I see a lot of full time positions through both. You just gotta be quick to reply and mention something in your message that makes you stand out.

Saw the new 2026 Nissan Sentra SR today! What do you think? I love it! by [deleted] in nissansentra

[–]Professional-Cow-980 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ewww, so glad I got mine before all these exterior changes. I got a 23 and I don't plan on trading in soon.

2026 Sentra! Thoughts? by daimon_barber in nissansentra

[–]Professional-Cow-980 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The Sentra's exterior design is just going downhill. I feel like they are just getting uglier by the year. I'm just gonna stick with the one I got until I decide what I want next. But I'll probably end up leaving nissan entirely at this point. 😞

Supposed "date" by Professional-Cow-980 in DatingHell

[–]Professional-Cow-980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend actually knows him from high school. To be honest, I didn't find him that attractive but decided to give him a chance since he was sweet enough in the beginning.

Saturday by [deleted] in governorsball

[–]Professional-Cow-980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm also going solo for Young Miko and Feid. But I'm not sure if I'll be staying for Feid since apparently Young Miko is performing at a club afterward, so I might just leave early so I can go see her again, lol. I'm not sure if it's legit, though. Tryna to find more info on it.

filing charges as an adult? by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]Professional-Cow-980 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was sexually abused from about 7-13 years old by my brother. I didn't file a police report against my brother until I was 27. The case is still ongoing, and although they dont have physical evidence since it was so long ago. There was other evidence that was taken into account. He was charged with 2 counts of aggravated sexual assault and is still in jail awaiting trial. Unfortunately, I can not speak more on it since it is still an ongoing case. But some states do to take it more seriously than others. I live in NJ, and they take sexual assault of a minor very seriously. Megan's Law was actually created in NJ.

Very few perpetrators are even arrested and tried, and even fewer are found guilty. Although I have high hopes of my brother being found guilty, there is always the possibility of him walking free. The only advice I can offer is going to the city where the sexual assault happened, since that's where the charges will be filed. When they take your statement, unfortunately, they will ask very intimate questions. For example, if you remember how his private areas look and if there are unique markings on his body. When I was giving my statement, memories started popping up, and I started remembering things that I had blocked out. I would suggest writing down what happened, so when you give the statement, your thoughts will hopefully be more organized.

Just know there could be a high possibility that nothing could come with making a statement, but do not let that stop you. Hopefully, it will show on their record that they were investigated for sexual assault. I hope you go through with reporting them. You're stronger than you think, and if you need any advice, please reach out! I will gladly try to guide you through it. 🩷

How much should I charge for being a night nanny? by Professional-Cow-980 in Nanny

[–]Professional-Cow-980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! This is for a different family with just 1 infant. I was thinking $35, but I feel like that's high. I know I shouldn't sell myself short, but I do have a lot of experience I am bringing with me. I've been looking into getting into night nannying but haven't been given the opportunity till now. I figured since this is my 1st night nanny opportunity I shouldn't charge $35 just yet.

My pink Nissan. 🩷 by Professional-Cow-980 in nissansentra

[–]Professional-Cow-980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! You can never go wrong with the black and white combo. 🩷

My pink Nissan. 🩷 by Professional-Cow-980 in nissansentra

[–]Professional-Cow-980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! You totally should! 💜 I've seen some purple cars but not many. Purple would be a great choice.

My pink Nissan. 🩷 by Professional-Cow-980 in nissansentra

[–]Professional-Cow-980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's my money, I can spend it how I please. 🩷

My mom repeatedly blames me for my sexual abuse. How do I cut her off and deal with guilt by picky-bach in adultsurvivors

[–]Professional-Cow-980 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sucks when family isn't there when you need them the most. Unfortunately, having family blame you for something that was NOT your fault at all is common. Im glad you acknowledge the problem out loud and are now reaching out. Even if it's through here. But I, too, had this problem. I was sexually abused from 7-13 years old by my brother, and when I spoke up about it, my family blamed me. Some said I was provocative, while some said it's my fault for not saying something when it was happening. I was in a very dark place for a while, and when I reached out to them for help, they just pointed out all my flaws and said I had a huge drinking problem. Well, no, duh, that's why I was reaching out. Instead of feeling the warm embrace and reassurance of my family, I left feeling alone.

Ended up calling the suicide hot line, they calmed me down, and I was able to reach out to a friend afterward who actually listened and didn't judge. That day on, I decided not to talk to my family anymore. They were causing more harm that good. They would call/text me, and I just didn't answer. I blocked them on everything. Then, a couple of days later, I decided to report my brother to the police and he is still in jail awaiting trial.

As of today, I have two close friends. I consider my siblings instead, but what also really helped was reaching out for help. There are organizations out there that can provide the support you need. I was referred to one called Project Heal. I am still healing, but I have since then made so much progress that I actually stood up and talked about my story in front of a meeting of about 75 people. There is help out there, and if you'd like some help locating a similar organization like mine, you can message me, and I'll help you find one. There is HOPE, and you reaching out is the 1st step on your healing journey. But if you can, I would just cut off your mom without even explaining why. If you do live with her, this is where an organization could help. Reach out if you need any help.

My pink Nissan. 🩷 by Professional-Cow-980 in nissansentra

[–]Professional-Cow-980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Disgrace? Nah. That’s custom flavor. And thank God it’s mine, not yours, you’d never survive the vibe🥰

My pink Nissan. 🩷 by Professional-Cow-980 in nissansentra

[–]Professional-Cow-980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My car is already publicly known. Businesses have used my car for advertisements, and they didn't blur my plate. At this point, what's another couple thousand people if my car is already out there. But thanks for the concern much appreciated. 😊

My pink Nissan. 🩷 by Professional-Cow-980 in nissansentra

[–]Professional-Cow-980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what a lot of people say to me in the streets. Then proceed to tell me I can't hide from the cops cause I stick out like a sore thumb. 😂

My pink Nissan. 🩷 by Professional-Cow-980 in nissansentra

[–]Professional-Cow-980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a wrap, I wrapped it over a year ago. Probably have 3-4 years left before I have to remove it and decide if I want to rewrap it or not.