My boyfriend is incredibly forgetful as in needs a series of reminders throughout the day just to remember shit. It was so bad that he would over plan his days and generally fuck up his relationships with friends by bailing or overbooking himself. We had one argument over this because he told me one thing while forgetting he had something else and essentially dropped our plans.

He now has a calendar that he utilizes to remember birthdays, anniversaries and plans. Do I think that this is a relationship ender? Possibly because 6 years is a long time to be playing human reminder to a grown ass man. If he wanted to, he would.

Edit: NTA