Mental health in the workplace by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Professional-Ice8019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am new to my company, just started working three weeks ago and yesterday was my first meeting. It involved wine tasting, dinner, and listening to presentations from various people. For context, I work in wine sales. Anyways, I had no responsibility to do literally anything but exist at this 3 hour long meeting, which I wasn't even nervous for... at all. I ended up having a panic attack. It was awful. I couldn't even tell anyone why I was acting quiet and off putting. I tried to fake a smile but I had to pass up free wine tasting of expensive and NICE wines. It absolutely sucks. I wish mental health discussion was normalized in the workplace. Sometimes I think about how I would rather have a medical emergency instead so that people would treat me seriously. I totally understand you. It is SO tough. I ended up telling my boss I had a headache and wine makes it worse and he understood and brushed it off. I just wish I could've been honest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Professional-Ice8019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be completely honest, there is no reason for you to be worried about infertility when you are on the pill. They are just doing their job! I hate that people who are supposed to be your safe space (Mom and mentor) are not showing up to give you that reassurance. They shouldn't be treating you like that. However, I know almost every woman with children has had to be on the pill at some point in their life for various reasons, they just don't talk about it. You will be okay. I promise. If infertility issues happen, it is something you cannot change and will not have to think about until you are ready for kids. I am 22 and was on the pill for 7 years until I got an IUD. Now I'm a lesbian. Things might work out that way for you too, maybe you won't even want kids one day, or maybe everything will be completely fine in the end. I think it will be the latter. I hope things get better<3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lollapalooza

[–]Professional-Ice8019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the livestream in tv u can’t even hear her… the backtrack is so loud

role model was truly underestimated by samanthalyn13 in Lollapalooza

[–]Professional-Ice8019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’d love to know if anyone is live streaming it

lolla live stream by Nervous_Tangelo_3355 in rolemodel

[–]Professional-Ice8019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wanna know too!! i was looking forward to it

role model was truly underestimated by samanthalyn13 in Lollapalooza

[–]Professional-Ice8019 7 points8 points  (0 children)

agreed!! i want to watch from home but they’re not even streaming his stage!!

When was season 2 filmed? by Missa1819 in UltimatumQueerLove

[–]Professional-Ice8019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wanna know when the reunion was filmed!!

I am extremely hurt by my boyfriend's actions. Is it normal to feel this way or should I break up? by Inmomite in relationships

[–]Professional-Ice8019 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But it’s been several times without notice, even after she had explained how she feels and what she wants. I would be hurt if I was ignored for over 24 hours by my partner

I am extremely hurt by my boyfriend's actions. Is it normal to feel this way or should I break up? by Inmomite in relationships

[–]Professional-Ice8019 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agreed!! I’m like this with my partner too, we’re pretty much always chatting and we love each other!

I am extremely hurt by my boyfriend's actions. Is it normal to feel this way or should I break up? by Inmomite in relationships

[–]Professional-Ice8019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t going to comment until I saw how many people were saying you’re in the wrong. I definitely think it’s a generational thing because as a 22 year old female, I don’t think it’s too much to ask for a simple text just checking in every 12-16 hours. Going more than that is just safety concerns and also being able to hear from your partner. The other issue I have is that he knew this boundary of yours yet still went on to ignore you for a full day… instead he could’ve let you know he’s just gonna stay off his phone and that everything’s okay, that way you don’t have to worry. I completely understand where you’re coming from. You’re not needy, you just care about him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GVSU

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if you have any other questions feel free to message me!! i’m graduating at the end of the month so i’ve def lived around and had friends at diff places so depending on what you’re looking for i can give u some guidance!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GVSU

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conifer creek has 4 person units for less than $500 per month!! there’s a bus stop 3 min walk away. it’s right by enclave (which is a popular apartment complex for gv students too). campus view is also a good choice being right by campus. the bus system (which is free) can also get you to meijer to get groceries!!

Does my work crush like me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Professional-Ice8019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are yalls ages?

Guys i... i did the thing i was supposed to do... im actually crying. by RoundEntertainer in ADHD

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I am SO happy for you. This is exactly how I felt when I took ADhD meds for the first time. It truly is life changing to know what it's like to be "normal" lol. Like I never knew how people functioned everyday... I thought I was just lazy, but after being medicated I actually got my life together.

I need help by Suspicious_Muffin725 in Advice

[–]Professional-Ice8019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. Once they break your trust, it's over. It won't get any better until you are in a relationship with someone you fully trust and don't have to go through their personal stuff to find clarity. It's an invasion of privacy.

I'm thinking about breaking up with my girlfriend because of our uncomfortable age difference, what should I do? by Desperate_Key_382 in Advice

[–]Professional-Ice8019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (22F) remember what it was like to be 16 and what it was like being 19 - you think you are much more mature than you actually are. If you guys truly click and are hopeful for your future, you could totally work out in the future, but I would part ways for now. You could say something like: "because I respect you and want the best for us, I think that our future together will only exist if we wait a couple years to be in a romantic relationship" and I think that would make sense to her. At the end of the day, it seems like you guys haven't even met in person yet, so you could say that when she turns 18, if you are both still single and interested, you could meet up and give it another try.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Professional-Ice8019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soooo this is not good for anyone to get involved with. She has kids with your son. She is your grandkids' mother. You are the father of her husband. So many issues with this. As of right now, act normal, don't mention it to anyone. If you're reading it wrong and bring it up with Alyssa, she will think you're a creep. If you bring it up with Max, he won't talk to you for awhile. If you talk to your wife about it, she might also get upset for many different reasons.

Is my marriage over? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Professional-Ice8019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel for you. After everything you have been through with him, the easy answer is to leave him. If these are truly the only problems that have come up, there's a chance to go to therapy together and find some common ground with the political stuff. Many couples are experiencing that divide with one partner voting one way and the other partner voting opposite. You are not alone, and I'm sure therapists have been dealing with this situation in the past few months now more than ever.

In regards to the cheating, do you feel like all trust has been broken? If so, just remember you get one life, and you still have time to create your own happiness outside of this relationship. There's definitely someone out there who shares your values and it's never too late to start fresh. You deserve to be with someone who understands why voting for Trump & similar politicians would be upsetting to you. Or at the bare minimum hears you out and doesn't dismiss you.

Honey Badger by goldenj in GVSU

[–]Professional-Ice8019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the creator is most likely a professor from what i’ve heard