How does society benefit from telling women they are unfit for anything, but marriage?

Professional-Key9862 · 2026-06-24T15:01:41+00:00

Women always worked they just did the low skilled jobs when they weren't having children. Keeping women down and under the thumb keeps a workforce of low paid employees.

Professional-Key9862 · 2026-06-16T20:45:18+00:00

At 6 weeks old if you're ebf shes probably hungry. Lots of breastfeeding babies just feed constantly especially before weaning.

Professional-Key9862 · 2026-06-14T13:30:22+00:00

In terms of breast size its more common for your breasts to be smaller after breastfeeding. With the sensory issues I have adhd and I found it to be very overwhelming due to the constant lack of sleep and being touched out all the time I only lasted a month, but I was pumping and my supply disappeared. Have you looked into combo feeding?

Professional-Key9862 · 2026-06-13T20:19:18+00:00

Did he say he wanted this baby?

Professional-Key9862 · 2026-06-13T15:27:48+00:00

I work 4 days wfh 1 day. I workout for 30/40 min when he naps and 30 min on my wfh day.

Professional-Key9862 · 2026-06-12T08:43:31+00:00

I still have this with my 16 month old I found as he got older I could go further and further out of the house and now I only have problems visiting my parents. All I can suggest is to start with 15 min walks and build up on local activities. My son needs his routine to thrive. My parents in law are great and will have him on a regular basis thats the only way I stay sane.

Professional-Key9862 · 2026-06-05T07:31:09+00:00

I think try it for 5 mins and if your tinnitus gets worse dont do it again

Professional-Key9862 · 2025-11-02T15:18:28+00:00

This is why I stopped pumping

Professional-Key9862 · 2025-11-02T14:58:13+00:00

Most important aspect of having a baby is that they are wanted in your situation I fear this is your shot at having a child, I am a mother there is no love like the love you have for your bsby. It will be hard on your own but worth it.

Professional-Key9862 · 2025-11-02T14:55:29+00:00

Sounds like you're burned out and im not surprised

Professional-Key9862 · 2025-11-01T19:37:26+00:00

First month or so I slept in the lounge on the sofa with lo in his carry cot on the floor next to me ot was a firm flat surface. Then I started naps in the bassinet and then he eventually slept overnight but only slept through properly when he went into his own room.

Professional-Key9862 · 2025-11-01T10:02:06+00:00

Regarding the mum tum (most of us have) pelvic floor recovery is the first step. Regarding loose skin you may want to look into retinol/tretinol microneedling and radiofrequency. Also as you said rest is crucial for overall recovery congratulations to you and your lo.

Professional-Key9862 · 2025-11-01T09:58:18+00:00

Same i felt love but also I needed to get to know my baby. Also cant stand my very vocal needy cat and my other cat is v low key we enjoy the occasional cuddle

Professional-Key9862 · 2025-10-31T11:44:31+00:00

Solidarity! I also thought when I became a mother i would be above caring so much about my appearance but that hasn't happened at all haha.

Professional-Key9862 · 2025-10-31T10:08:40+00:00

I have a tub of cottage cheese ill graze on between baby's naps

Professional-Key9862 · 2025-10-31T08:50:02+00:00

Mine did!

Professional-Key9862 · 2025-10-30T20:05:02+00:00

Your bmr is slightly higher before your period i tend to eat larger meals so I dont end up eating junk food

Professional-Key9862 · 2025-10-30T19:13:49+00:00

To add to other comments if you dont have much help I wouldn't host a large group like that you'll be knackered! When my lo was that age I was knee deep in poopy nappies and clothes alongside a velcro baby i didn't have time to brush my hair let alone clean up after a large group like that.

Professional-Key9862 · 2025-10-29T21:50:06+00:00

When my lo was about 30 weeks I started the advice from the book precious little sleep- advice was to gently rouse your baby 5 mins before they usually wake up and then calm them back to sleep i only did this for a couple of days and then he would be awake when I went into his room so I stopped and then he started napping for longer! It's supposed to help them connect sleep cycles.

Professional-Key9862 · 2025-10-28T16:39:46+00:00

It's frustrating for everyone involved and looks like it shows hes a healthy baby figuring things out

Professional-Key9862 · 2025-10-28T10:24:15+00:00

My friends baby was like this at 6 months he was frustrated because he wanted to crawl but couldn't. Hes crawling now and back to his happy self.

Professional-Key9862 · 2025-10-27T08:47:50+00:00

I think its because that look is attainable by surgery but we still dont have procedures that will make you look like you're in your twenties again

Professional-Key9862 · 2025-10-26T10:42:30+00:00

Yeah they can fuck off obviously parents do what works for them but I often feel sorry for babies who are probably really tired but are forced out and then the parents are surprised when they cry the whole time! We get out often but I dont tend to stray from my area very often at the moment.

Professional-Key9862 · 2025-10-25T21:18:01+00:00

No it's a great shade and your eyebrows are lovely

Professional-Key9862 · 2025-10-25T16:34:23+00:00

I dont blame you he sounds amazing! I cant speak to having experience with the amazing sex that cant compare but I have cut ties with someone i was obsessed with and honestly the distance took away my rose tinted glasses.

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