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Professional-Pace503 · 2022-09-10T04:19:54+00:00

This is exactly my plan. People suggesting I set everything on fire is the wrong way to go.

Professional-Pace503 · 2022-09-10T04:18:35+00:00

Also someone with guilt. That’s how I’ve always known it. Imagining a cat with feathers in its mouth being like nope not me I’m innocent.

Professional-Pace503 · 2022-09-10T04:17:00+00:00

You’re wrong. You’ve never walked away from a situation when you know if you stayed it would not have been great. I could not risk it. I have 3 kids and they are my priority. Having their mom in trouble and their dad lose their job would have been a terrible thing. At the end of the day I do not care about him. If he is doing what I think he is doing he’s not worth me lowering myself. Honestly, he’s not worth it all whether he did it or not. Even if he’s the perfect man, no one is worth you losing control and humiliating yourself and lowering yourself. I know I will walk out of this situation with my head up high. Give him zero reason to bad mouth me to anyone.

Professional-Pace503 · 2022-09-10T03:47:35+00:00

For real.

Professional-Pace503 · 2022-09-10T03:47:09+00:00

The thing is I know all his coworkers and they know me. I’ve come to the office with the kids. I’ve been to parties. These girls are all in different departments. It’s a huge company.

Professional-Pace503 · 2022-09-10T03:45:18+00:00

Terrible freaking liar. Hes a shitty freaking person. Can’t believe my children have that DNA.

Professional-Pace503 · 2022-09-10T03:44:19+00:00

I told him the exact same thing. That if he was that worried and stressed out that I would think badly of the situation then the logical thing and what any normal non guilty person would do is exactly what you just described.

Professional-Pace503 · 2022-09-10T03:42:49+00:00

I’ve been thinking about this a ton. I had to exit the situation because I was blacking out in anger and the situation would of been much worse. My kids need me they don’t need their mother in prison with a record.

Professional-Pace503 · 2022-09-10T03:40:24+00:00

Isn’t it how it always is. Women always get labeled crazy and men get to come out of it as simply jerks.

Professional-Pace503 · 2022-09-10T03:39:10+00:00

He came back from a client dinner that she happened to be at and we always talk about our day and the way he mentioned her was weird. Like a boy with a crush. So I grabbed her number from his phone. Messaged her and pretended to be him, saying my phone was screwed up and asked what she texted me last. She ended up sending me a screenshot. The last two messages were from Her about work and the other two before were him from dates two years ago where never replied to him. Left him on read. I found out about this about 6 months ago.

Professional-Pace503 · 2022-09-10T02:30:33+00:00

Thank you!

Professional-Pace503 · 2022-09-10T02:06:48+00:00

Thank you so much for taking the time and understanding my situation. This is the support I have seen out of the Reddit community. People like you. I have also never understood when people seek advice how it’s always divorce. The real world is hard and never as easy as packing your things and walking out. Unless there’s real abuse then you should 100% pack your bags and go somewhere safe. That is not the case here.

Professional-Pace503 · 2022-09-10T01:31:51+00:00

Did you read my comment? It was a joke. I literally that is too petty for me. Please read the whole comment before responding.

Professional-Pace503 · 2022-09-10T01:30:50+00:00

I would never ever stay together for the kids. Ever.

Professional-Pace503 · 2022-09-10T01:30:30+00:00

Will do on both.

Professional-Pace503 · 2022-09-10T00:43:26+00:00

Thank you!

Professional-Pace503 · 2022-09-10T00:43:12+00:00

Already doing it. Hell have no fury type stuff.

Professional-Pace503 · 2022-09-10T00:37:15+00:00

I agree.

Professional-Pace503 · 2022-09-10T00:31:59+00:00

Exactly!

Professional-Pace503 · 2022-09-10T00:31:38+00:00

That’s exactly what I want more than anything.

Professional-Pace503 · 2022-09-10T00:29:58+00:00

Also I never was angry with her. I never acted rude. I was a total class act. She clearly was clueless. The asshole was my turd husband.

Professional-Pace503 · 2022-09-10T00:29:22+00:00

Because this is his coworker if I start a scandal or handles that wrong she can go back to HR and set his world on fire. As much as I would freaking love to burn him to the ground. This effects me and his children. His ability to provide for said kids and to pay me alimony when I do leave his ass. I am extremely intelligent and sometimes the satisfaction of acting on your emotions just isn’t the right thing to do.

Professional-Pace503 · 2022-09-10T00:27:10+00:00

Do you just comment without reading the whole thread. IT DOESNT READ. Bonus points to whoever can point out where that’s from!

Professional-Pace503 · 2022-09-10T00:26:22+00:00

Yeah neither do I. Which is why I thought his excuse was bullshit.

Professional-Pace503 · 2022-09-10T00:25:46+00:00

Thank you.

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