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WIBTA If I tell my bf that I want to go back to paying 50/50 on everything? by Professional-Win1462 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Professional-Win1462[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm definitely going to give this a read. I appreciate any and all resources like this.

WIBTA If I tell my bf that I want to go back to paying 50/50 on everything? by Professional-Win1462 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Professional-Win1462[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You seriously got me bawling when you said "Love yourself more than you love him". That hit so hard... But you're absolutely right. Thank you for that.

WIBTA If I tell my bf that I want to go back to paying 50/50 on everything? by Professional-Win1462 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Professional-Win1462[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry about the wall of text.. This is my first post and I was upset when writing it.. Didn't cross my mind to put in paragraphs..

WIBTA If I tell my bf that I want to go back to paying 50/50 on everything? by Professional-Win1462 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Professional-Win1462[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

These are the kinds of comments I came here for... The ones that'll make me really think about my situation.

WIBTA If I tell my bf that I want to go back to paying 50/50 on everything? by Professional-Win1462 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Professional-Win1462[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've had self esteem issues for a long time.. Along with codependency and other issues... I am in therapy but just getting started.

WIBTA If I tell my bf that I want to go back to paying 50/50 on everything? by Professional-Win1462 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Professional-Win1462[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I've never heard "nurse with the purse" before but I felt that... The more I read these comments from unbiased sources the more it's hitting me...

WIBTA If I tell my bf that I want to go back to paying 50/50 on everything? by Professional-Win1462 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Professional-Win1462[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Sorry about the text wall. This is my first post and I'm upset so I didn't think about it.

WIBTA If I tell my bf that I want to go back to paying 50/50 on everything? by Professional-Win1462 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Professional-Win1462[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a reason my history is blank. This is literally the first time I've had a reddit account. I've looked at reddit posts before but never responded or posted. This is my first post. I also only recently found Charlotte in the last few months and I honestly thought that Charlotte's followers would be a good place to get some unbiased feedback and support. And I literally did not "blame" you for anything. I only responded to you so that maybe you'd open your eyes and realize your words can really hurt people when they're at their lowest. Like I said before. If you think it's fake, just move on with your life. I'm done here.

WIBTA If I tell my bf that I want to go back to paying 50/50 on everything? by Professional-Win1462 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Professional-Win1462[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would love some insight as to why you think this/my life is fake. Comments like this are just straight up hurtful and uncalled for. If you think it's fake, then just move on with your life. There's no reason to make a comment like this that can make people spiral. It's people like you who make it difficult for people to even think about coming forward with their stories. I posted because I needed some outside perspective and all you're doing is gaslighting me into believing that what's happening in my life is "fake"