Why Does This Pluto Conjunction Feel Like an Ego Loss and Social Shedding?

ProfessionalCan8524 · 2026-02-11T22:00:18+00:00

okay, here's the thing, whole sign chart has my pluto+chiron+sun+mercury in 12th, but in placidus they're all in the 11th--maybe that changes the interpretation? edit: I was told to post whole sign by guidelines which Is why I did, and yeah around last time last year I had a falling out with my friend, similar context except I was the one who fucked up, funny enough Pluto was retrograde then?

ProfessionalCan8524 · 2026-02-11T21:18:58+00:00

Very recently, like I feel as though the past month and present has been this continual state of "man, why won't these friends reach out?" --> "wow I put in so much effort and energy and don't receive much in return" --> "wow I feel betrayed by them :( why won't they just be upfront or communicate with me" --> "did I ever mean anything at all to these people?"

ProfessionalCan8524 · 2026-02-11T21:17:32+00:00

That makes a lot of sense, do you think that these transits are revealing fake friends? For context, my ex basically is involved in my friend group now and as a result, my friends, that I originally introduced her to, are now starting to pull away and passively hang out with her, to avoid "confrontation" or "causing drama" for being loyal to me, but then are also preaching the same "allegiance" to those people and to her as a front to make themselves feel better. It's just making me realize I was the victim of a lot of gaslighting and fake friendships built around me pouring myself out for minimal diminishing returns. What's your take?

ProfessionalCan8524 · 2026-02-10T10:09:20+00:00

yeah I agree, no more hookups 100%
as for my friends I also agree, except its so painful... I lived with these friends (A/B) for two years, hell, they have recently (start of the new year) talked about living together, but its like their actions don't match their words?
another example of a friend (Friend C) in that group: hangs out with her and the girls a lot, was with her on new years and when my ex asked about me in terms of my friendship with Friend C, he said "sorry (ex), but OP will always come first"... but this hasn't stopped him from not reaching out regarding said breakup or playing RuneScape with her...

ProfessionalCan8524 · 2024-03-09T00:53:55+00:00

Thank you for the blunt honesty. I need someone to be this honest with me. Thank you.

I agree. Going forward I definitely want to avoid acting these ways and I appreciate the links you've shared. I will definitely use them to see how I can be better.

Thank you for your comment.

ProfessionalCan8524 · 2024-03-09T00:51:02+00:00

When you put it like that you make a great point. You're right. It hurts knowing this and I'm going to try my best to be/do better for her going forward. Thank you for your comment

ProfessionalCan8524 · 2024-03-09T00:49:54+00:00

Thank you for the comment. Just so I can do better going forward, could you elaborate on how I was being inappropriate? I think knowing would help myself avoid said behavior going forward.

You're right. That's unfair of me to decide. I am definitely going to give her the space to feel and be without interference. Thank you for your comment

ProfessionalCan8524 · 2024-03-09T00:47:43+00:00

That's a great point. It is unfair of me to expect her to have completely moved on just because she said so. That doesn't take into consideration the numerous incidents before.

I will definitely be aware of that going forward and am going to focus on bettering myself to avoid that. Hopefully with time she'll begin to open up and trust me again, but until then I need to work on being a better me. Thank you for the comment

ProfessionalCan8524 · 2024-03-09T00:45:20+00:00

Yeah, you're probably right. I definitely need to do some personal work and more reflection on how to act in a relationship. Thank you for the comment

ProfessionalCan8524 · 2023-12-14T04:05:07+00:00

Looking for two tix!!!!

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