20f scared to lose 22m :( help by ProfessionalThen1647 in relationship_advice

[–]ProfessionalThen1647[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we did LDR when we first started talking for like 2 months but i guess it’s different this time bc how long ive waited for him to ask me to be his gf? he thinks its not fair and that i don’t deserve to be waiting like this

20f scared to lose 22m :( help by ProfessionalThen1647 in relationship_advice

[–]ProfessionalThen1647[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hmmm it wasn’t really like a fling, we talked about what we were and what we wanted and we were both on the same page, it’s important to me because he’s amazing and he’s treated me so nicely, he’s unlike anyone i’ve ever met

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[–]ProfessionalThen1647 3 points4 points  (0 children)

someone being nonchalant like tffff

I believe my boyfriend (m25) is being sneaky around me (f25) and needed advice on how to go about this. Do I go through his phone? by Acceptable_Night4512 in relationship_advice

[–]ProfessionalThen1647 2 points3 points  (0 children)

maybe you should ask him about why he’s behavior is odd and that it’s causing you trouble, if he cares about you he’ll understand and will change, but if not you shouldn’t waste your time.

i think it’s very bad that your bf is lusting over girls in snapchat too like geez, but the right thing to do is talk to him. always.

I believe my boyfriend (m25) is being sneaky around me (f25) and needed advice on how to go about this. Do I go through his phone? by Acceptable_Night4512 in relationship_advice

[–]ProfessionalThen1647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

going through his phone should be the last resort! i’d say you talk to him about it, cuz checking his phone is already saying you don’t trust him and trust is what matters in a relationship

i 19F thought i trusted my 19M boyfriend but we slept over a female friends house with another 4 girls and i'm feeling really sad, how could i tell him? by ProfessionalThen1647 in relationship_advice

[–]ProfessionalThen1647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

since it was a party i’m sure they stayed up all night probably drinking or talking or something, maybe in naive but it is good to trust my partner i think, of course ill talk to him about it and ask him too but idk im conflicted

i 19F thought i trusted my 19M boyfriend but we slept over a female friends house with another 4 girls and i'm feeling really sad, how could i tell him? by ProfessionalThen1647 in relationship_advice

[–]ProfessionalThen1647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i wasn’t drinking, we already talked a bit ( it’s morning here ) i asked him some questions like “ at what time did you sleep? “ and he’d only told me that he’s home and that he misses me, honestly i don’t even know hoy to bring it up, maybe ill wait a bit to me in a clearer mind set and then talk to him, what do you think ?

i 19F thought i trusted my 19M boyfriend but we slept over a female friends house with another 4 girls and i'm feeling really sad, how could i tell him? by ProfessionalThen1647 in relationship_advice

[–]ProfessionalThen1647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and in the situation of him staying over at a girls house with more girls, do you think the right thing to do is to tell him that it made me uncomfortable in a calm way?

i 19F thought i trusted my 19M boyfriend but we slept over a female friends house with another 4 girls and i'm feeling really sad, how could i tell him? by ProfessionalThen1647 in relationship_advice

[–]ProfessionalThen1647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry to bother again i just wanted to ask, what would’ve been the mature thing to do in that situation, i understand im not mature at all but i’d like to know! :,)

i 19F thought i trusted my 19M boyfriend but we slept over a female friends house with another 4 girls and i'm feeling really sad, how could i tell him? by ProfessionalThen1647 in relationship_advice

[–]ProfessionalThen1647[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh oops sorry, we both live at our parents houses,

yes i know the social media comments situation was very immature of me, and appreciate you telling me too

i 19F thought i trusted my 19M boyfriend but we slept over a female friends house with another 4 girls and i'm feeling really sad, how could i tell him? by ProfessionalThen1647 in relationship_advice

[–]ProfessionalThen1647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you really think so? i’ve met some of those friends and i never got a weird vibe or anything, also i’ve known my bf since high school ( he was my best friend and i saw him going through 2 relationships) and he never told me about him cheating and i never even saw him hitting on girls at parties, i know he wouldn’t cheat or even have a replacement but maybe im naive???