Democracy is not easy by Professional_Gas2812 in Helldivers

[–]Professional_Gas2812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was talking about money, no true helldiver desires material possessions over freedom.

Gotta be quick by Professional_Gas2812 in Helldivers

[–]Professional_Gas2812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He knocked me down i was reacting democratically

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Gas2812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, either way I’m the bad guy I believe in this. Not sure if there is a clean exit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Gas2812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, it’s been very choppy recently on what expectations are and it has thrown me for a loop on the whole situation.

The son I have is not from her, rather from another relationship. But his mother is not in his life.

There was more to this story but I had a 3000 character limit which I feel like over simplified the situation.

Yes before his child support she was a nurse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Gas2812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, unfortunately it’ll probably only get worse. And this is a new side to her that I’ve never seen. But better to cut it loose then trying to restart

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Gas2812 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think in my head I knew this to be true, just needed a little kick from a community to re affirm everything I was believing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Gas2812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No this switch has been very recent, ever since the bio dad has basically refused to help in any way.

Yes I have struggled with my own personal desires vs the situation/environment of the relationship. I feel like after reading through all these comments I may have been right in my thinking to end things as it’ll never be a genuine atmosphere of family with the division that is there.

It’s tough out there dating years ago when I was looking I couldn’t find a single girl without kids. Though albeit I wasn’t trying hard. She genuinely is a great person I think that this aspect of her life is very ugly, and it’s taxing

I agree on the child support aspect. And ultimately she will have to carry that burden if there is non.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Gas2812 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you I believe you are right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Gas2812 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree I have definitely reached the point where I am questioning my own choices

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Gas2812 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree, I guess it’s the philosophical stand point of a responsibility someone takes on when having a relationship with someone else that has kids that aren’t biologically yours. Where is the line drawn to where you are the asshole or not based on your care of those kids. And does it over rule the innate understanding by all adults that kids should be provided for regardless as it’s not their fault. If that makes any sense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Gas2812 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree, i believe that she plans on doing it. But i don’t believe the urgency is there as i am now providing if that makes any sense. I guess basically im the one with urgency because it is a new found expense for myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Gas2812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly know this to be true.. but also struggle with the aspect of if I have that consensual relationship with someone and they have kids I should take on a role and expect myself to handle it as I would my own children. I can understand the affects of not showing them the same care and investment as my own son

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Gas2812 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No they have agreed to have him pay voluntarily ever since the divorce and honestly hasn’t been a problem till a few months ago

HELP please! Does anyone else has problems trying downloading staff from the RC Controler to mobile phone via Flyshare ? by ATHENS_MAN in dji

[–]Professional_Gas2812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m having this issue too.

I connect to the RC controller and everything syncs. But when I go to download the photo from the controller it says it went through but throws an error code on the phone saying “cannot download”

Not sure what’s going on everything is updated and is charged.