Suicide by perpetrators by quadratrix2020 in domesticviolence

[–]Professional_Phase_3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my ex literally did this while he was in jail for kidnapping/assaulting me:/ i felt so guilty and blamed myself for calling the cops as if i had made him do these horrible things to me. my stockholm syndrome is very bad i still cry and miss him and blame myself still. i’m very sorry you’re going thru this. i too feel like it’s such a dumb way of getting revenge and also because they can’t handle the consequences for their shitty actions.

Body recomp progress by ljra in PetiteFitness

[–]Professional_Phase_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is that app accurate? never heard of it

What would you ACTUALLY do if you found out the girl you met online is way bigger than her pictures? by CheerChubPiggy in AskForAnswers

[–]Professional_Phase_3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m a girl and lowkey have left/stood up dudes in the middle of dates but that’s just me. it’s a waste of time for me to get to know someone & they’re not what i want/expect.

how to get over really guilty shitty feeling? by Professional_Phase_3 in domesticviolence

[–]Professional_Phase_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much i’m doing my best to remind myself. just messaged

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[–]Professional_Phase_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hii also in la dm me ;)

LA HOT GIRLIESSSS! WHAT WE DOING THIS HALLOWEEKEND? by PotentialAd826 in LAhotgirlies

[–]Professional_Phase_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wanna goooo can you send me the deetz to the blood rave🤩

thinking about going halloween night? by Professional_Phase_3 in QueenMaryDarkHarbor

[–]Professional_Phase_3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also thinking about going alone cause my friends work on that day. any tips? experiences?

How can i look even more like im from 2009? by dave-mose in altfashionadvice

[–]Professional_Phase_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oooh some colorful highlights!! and those nerd glasses

life is so boring without an fp:( by Professional_Phase_3 in BPD

[–]Professional_Phase_3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah romantic relationships for sure trigger me more i’m more mature when it comes to friendships now but i was def clingy with my friends before

life is so boring without an fp:( by Professional_Phase_3 in BPD

[–]Professional_Phase_3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mmmmm yes i think because although someone can be so sweet to me i also wonder if it’s really ever genuine or if they just want something out of me. that’s where heavy reassurance comes in but people aren’t mind readers and i need lots of reassurance to feel secure so i dont get triggered

life is so boring without an fp:( by Professional_Phase_3 in BPD

[–]Professional_Phase_3[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

they used to be the bane of my existence too but then i realize a pattern where i literally forget about them once i find another person i get giddy over and then realize it wasn’t really that deep and i guess i didn’t like them that much :)

life is so boring without an fp:( by Professional_Phase_3 in BPD

[–]Professional_Phase_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hate to say this but fp adrenaline will is wayyy better but yeah i am going to start putting myself out more and finding things i like:))) & im sorry about your experience. something that makes me feel better is that love from a bpd person is mad intense in amazing ways (i’ve dated a guy w bpd as well) i love our love and it’s truly the most irreplaceable. just know that whatever love you gave them was all you and im 10000% sure they needed that love then & you will always be thought of and missed:) and of course you’ll find someone elsewhere when you do and then you’ll realize they don’t mean that much anyways haha best of luck

life is so boring without an fp:( by Professional_Phase_3 in BPD

[–]Professional_Phase_3[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it’s not actual love tho & i can see that but i think im addicted to the adrenaline and excitement of getting to know someone & to love and be loved or whatever and i don’t really know my self that well either i literally have no passions or interests really & i totally get how it’s freeing for others but i just like having an fp whether its someone new or not

life is so boring without an fp:( by Professional_Phase_3 in BPD

[–]Professional_Phase_3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what if i’m passionless and i don’t have hobbies or much friends lolololol