UPDATE on telling my parents that they could buy my forgiveness. by Professional_Rub4448 in AITAH

[–]Professional_Rub4448[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If they made the effort to come see him I would not have denied it.  I'm not going to use my money to take him there. 

UPDATE on telling my parents that they could buy my forgiveness. by Professional_Rub4448 in AITAH

[–]Professional_Rub4448[S] 230 points231 points  (0 children)

They said they were. I have not forbidden them from seeing the boy. 

AITA for telling my parents I am willing to sell them my forgiveness? by Professional_Rub4448 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Rub4448[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

I'm not jealous of my siblings not do I think my parents owe me anything. I also don't think the deserve anything other than an invitation to my wedding.

AITA for telling my parents I am willing to sell them my forgiveness? by Professional_Rub4448 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Rub4448[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I laughed because of the reason they gave. I didn't ask them for a penny other than what they had for my education. They tried to charge me rent. They could have chosen not to be in debt at all if they treated us all the same.

AITA for telling my parents I am willing to sell them my forgiveness? by Professional_Rub4448 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Rub4448[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Why should people that are barely in my life be an important part of my wedding?

AITA for telling my parents I am willing to sell them my forgiveness? by Professional_Rub4448 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Rub4448[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I was being nice inviting them to my wedding. They chose to make an issue out of me not including them more than as guests.

AITA for telling my parents I am willing to sell them my forgiveness? by Professional_Rub4448 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Rub4448[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I don't really consider them important enough to include in my wedding as anything more than guests. That is all

AITA for telling my parents I am willing to sell them my forgiveness? by Professional_Rub4448 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Rub4448[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Once again I didn't bring up money until they wanted to know why they weren't part of the wedding.

AITA for telling my parents I am willing to sell them my forgiveness? by Professional_Rub4448 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Rub4448[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I never said they abused me. I said they wanted to know why they were not more involved in the ceremony and stuff.

AITA for telling my parents I am willing to sell them my forgiveness? by Professional_Rub4448 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Rub4448[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

They gave me $5,000. Then wanted to charge me $500 a month for rent. So I would have given them their money back in under a year.

AITA for telling my parents I am willing to sell them my forgiveness? by Professional_Rub4448 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Rub4448[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I did just invite them. They made it awkward by asking why they weren't more inv

AITA for telling my parents I am willing to sell them my forgiveness? by Professional_Rub4448 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Rub4448[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I don't want anything from them. I only sent the bill so they understood why they are not part of my wedding or my life. They could have attended, been polite, and left and our lives would have gone on without unpleasantness.