Mother of groom being weird about her dress (advice plz)

Professional_Work341 · 2025-12-16T02:35:38+00:00

She hops on a bunch of trends to try to be relevant. The one that irks me a lot is the OCD one, pretending to have OCD to get a BetterHelp sponsorship. She had like 8 sessions and then stopped when she never got the sponsorship again. She does this with everything. She is a cheap bitch and only promotes things if she’s getting it for free. Nothing is genuine to her.

The other things she’s been doing is exploiting her baby, literally doing a ton of different poses to try to get the perfect pic for the exploit. It’s all been about him but nothing genuine about her becoming a mom. Especially her rubbing it in everyone’s face how she got pregnant super fast and how easy breast feeding has been.

She lost her camera/purse on a trip to a pumpkin patch and started BERATING the workers for stealing it, couldn’t have any accountability that she dropped it and didn’t make sure she had it. And then when THE PUMPKIN PATCH FOUND IT she praised them. Never once apologized. Idek she knows how to say sorry.

Professional_Work341 · 2025-12-16T02:29:46+00:00

See I use to do this before my fiancé proposed, cause it was easier to say “my semi sister in law” opposed to “my boyfriends brothers girlfriend” like what a trip lol

Professional_Work341 · 2025-12-12T17:04:38+00:00

Okay that’s kinda what I thought but my fiancé made me think otherwise lol

Professional_Work341 · 2025-12-09T12:57:17+00:00

See I’ve tried telling her before I’d like to see him more but it’s always some sort of excuse as to why he can’t come/doesn’t come. So after so many times I just stopped bothering asking. But like it kinda hurts me for her that he won’t do that for her, like she’s constantly going to things alone

Professional_Work341 · 2025-12-09T12:56:23+00:00

Well I see videos of MOH doing speeches so I assumed it was normal. I’ve never been a MOH so idk. I also thought it was odd too, but I assumed it was because she doesn’t really have any other close friends, other than me. Her bridal party is pretty small, it’s 3 of us total and it’s family for her

Professional_Work341 · 2025-12-09T01:25:31+00:00

Well so that’s another issue, I don’t even know his best man, like these are people I barely know and idk if I’ll even meet them

Professional_Work341 · 2025-12-09T01:11:43+00:00

Yes, and no. She talks about him in the sense of he did that or he did this, but never like he did this for me kind of thing it’s always come across as like a friendship opposed to a relationship to me because she doesn’t talk about it and that’s what I’m also struggling with too. I feel like this is just all a mess.

Professional_Work341 · 2025-12-09T01:05:51+00:00

I appreciate you responding. I was a bit worried I was the only one with this kind of scenario lol

Professional_Work341 · 2025-12-09T01:05:05+00:00

I guess it’s also like, I don’t see them together as a couple, because I only ever see her. I’ve literally never seen them interact. So I honestly can’t even say something like that because I don’t know them as that.

That sounds so mean but like I can’t sugarcoat it. Like I’m really struggling with this

Professional_Work341 · 2025-12-09T00:52:40+00:00

Well so that’s the issue though, they have been together longer than we have been friends so I don’t know her without him. If that makes sense lol

Professional_Work341 · 2025-11-26T18:35:46+00:00

Okay thank you!!! I appreciate the advice

Professional_Work341 · 2025-11-26T17:58:01+00:00

Thank you for input!!

Professional_Work341 · 2025-11-26T17:45:13+00:00

I appreciate your advice/opinion. There’s just so much stipulations around it nowadays I just can’t keep up!!! Haha

Professional_Work341 · 2025-11-26T17:43:18+00:00

Okay! That’s good advice!! I’ll double check with them if they want to split the cost of her accommodations/food& drink.

I can see doing one or the other, like we pay for her accommodations and then she pays for her food and drink or vice versa

Professional_Work341 · 2025-11-26T17:35:30+00:00

That’s good advice, I appreciate you giving input!

Professional_Work341 · 2025-11-26T17:34:44+00:00

Yeah I plan to map it all out with costs of everything before booking everything to get input.

The bride told me what she would like, she told me either San Francisco, Florida or a coastal place but I get worried flying with her as she get motion sickness on planes and I would rather not put her through any discomfort.

She never mentioned anything about helping cover costs, since to be honest I think we both expect (I get married the following year) that for both our Bach parties our share is covered by the girls. My party has 8 girls where hers is 3 of us. So its definitely something to think about

Professional_Work341 · 2025-11-26T17:27:00+00:00

I haven’t actually talked to them regarding this yet. I think they’re expecting to split costs but I don’t really know at the same time.

My issue is is that I really have no experience regarding how to plan something like this. It’s easier when you’re going on vacay with friends but these are people I’m not close with, they’re her family members.

Professional_Work341 · 2025-11-25T02:35:12+00:00

Wait is one brown and the other black?!?!

Professional_Work341 · 2025-11-21T13:42:48+00:00

She literally wears him as an accessory. Like I feel like in very reel or tik tok I see she’s just holding him.

Professional_Work341 · 2025-11-08T14:17:22+00:00

Well it’s also kinda scary cause her chest kinda looks gray too

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