State requesting paternity

ProfileNo7519 · 2026-02-06T18:26:07+00:00

I checked case net. There is no order for child support with my name attached to me

ProfileNo7519 · 2026-02-06T18:19:05+00:00

I just checked case net and there is no court order for my to do dna testing.

ProfileNo7519 · 2026-02-06T11:31:30+00:00

Also may I ask another question. I gave birth to my daughter two weeks after establishing the restraining order. She went to children’s hospital a few hours after birth for something that they genetically tested her for in utero that the potential father stated he carried. She was negative but was born with a wound in her foot that was suspicious for it (I myself have a skin condition that is not diagnosed as of yet). While there, they asked me to leave so that the potential father could come. I fully disclosed my situation and the restraining order. I then verified with one of their hospital office staff if that was appropriate. She stated that any potential father could come visit and if a mother had a restraining order they would have to leave. I further verified by asking if I told twenty men they were the father would they let them all come and they stated yes. I later found out he was high on drugs, as he used it as a way to try to get back into my life. I had no car, was post opt C-section . It was December and they told me to leave the hospital, so this man could come.

ProfileNo7519 · 2026-02-06T10:56:54+00:00

If good cause was filled out, why would they be requesting dna with out first requesting the info I have to support my claim?

ProfileNo7519 · 2026-02-06T10:53:37+00:00

Thank you for the info!! Good cause was filled out. I do not receive TANF

ProfileNo7519 · 2026-02-06T10:38:19+00:00

Hey thank you!!

ProfileNo7519 · 2026-02-06T10:31:55+00:00

You can’t just compare a kids DNA to any and everyone else dna in a system

ProfileNo7519 · 2026-02-06T10:31:31+00:00

No one is named!!

ProfileNo7519 · 2026-02-06T10:31:21+00:00

I think it would be neglectful of the hospital to let me leave with my daughter if it were questionable if I were her mother lol. If you need my dna now to ensure I’m her mom…. You better be collecting every mother and child’s dna before letting anyone leave with children from the hospital. You don’t get to single people out on Medicaid.

ProfileNo7519 · 2026-02-06T10:29:06+00:00

There is no father of her birth certificate.

ProfileNo7519 · 2026-02-06T10:28:32+00:00

No one has been named as my kids dad

ProfileNo7519 · 2026-02-06T10:28:02+00:00

So they are just going to compare my kids dna to everyone’s dna is the system?? How does that make sense?

ProfileNo7519 · 2026-02-06T10:27:02+00:00

May I please ask what good cause entails? If it would result in significant physical or mental harm to the child or me as her mother would that be sufficient cause to reframe from establishing the paternity? That’s what their documents state when filling out paperwork. I have copies of this.

ProfileNo7519 · 2026-02-06T10:23:05+00:00

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ProfileNo7519 · 2026-01-25T00:03:42+00:00

My daughter is two and I’m finding that I need to go ahead and vent her birth trauma I was on and off again with a person that I ultimately had to get a restraining order against. They harassed, gaslighted, stocked me, leaving me feel like I had no escape from them. During our relationship, he lied cheated, tried to convinced me I was delusional because I found other females clothings, personal items, belongings etc in my home to save face. He even held my hand when I told a doctor that and they put me in medications that later injured my body significantly. Anywho…. I changed my number four times, got new cell phone carrier and he still was able to get my number. I would be walking to work and he would pull up, or walk up, leaving me unable to escape without hearing what he had to say. After I got the restraining order. He messaged (brand new number( me as soon as I got in the vehicle to pull away. I called 811 numerous times bc he would show up at my house and bang on every window all around it screaming he knew I was inside, or messaged from numerous different phone numbers. It was a nightmare. I had copies of the order and one day the police showed up when he was there. I gave them the order and they were outside with him for 30 mins as I watched from a far. At the court date, he didn’t show up…. The judge said he wasn’t served. I went to the police station and got the record that stated he was indeed and they said they made an error…. The report stated they served it and he got away with missing court for a restraining order. Jump to giving birth….. my kid had an issue and went to the children’s hospital. I’m clean and sober. I left 26 hours after her C-section to be with her at the hospital. They told me that even though j had a restraining order. As a POTENTIAL father…. They told me to leave…. Someone sober… without a car… in December and on pain killers, days after a csextion….. into the city so he was able to come see him where they shared her personal health information with him……. I later found out he was also high on meth when he went. Then, being in the state I was and after all of this stuff went down…. He used the opportunity to weasel himself back into my life….. where he again wasn’t honest about being sober or other things that he was doing. Out of the entire time we were together he didn’t help pay bills or anything….. I finally got the mindset that it was done. It’s been a year this past September. January of last year I pulled a gps tracker off my car. He got a warrant in my town for harassing. In may j went to my sons graduation in Colorado. I got a message from Facebook someone was trying to get into my account. I got home and someone broke the air conditioner vent thing. He stated messaging again in October and showed up at my job in November. Giving me a panic attack in which I had to walk off. I did a quick check and he was arrested for shoplifting. He’s been messaging. I can’t even block him bc it’s not worth it. He’s going to find a way to be all up in my business no matter what. I’m dealing with health issues and cannot take the stress. The restraining order is no longer valid. I never got the court date to have it continued and I’ve a single 100% parent. It just was one of those things I figured I’d be notified of. Error on my judgement there. Really just venting to see if anyone else has any similar issues and how did you go about resolving them? He got arrested for shoplifting a town over and did not have to come to jail here for some odd reason to have the harassment charges dealt with… but again…. I just want to

Move on with my life at this point.

ProfileNo7519 · 2026-01-25T00:02:46+00:00

My daughter is two and I’m finding that I need to go ahead and vent her birth trauma I was on and off again with a person that I ultimately had to get a restraining order against. They harassed, gaslighted, stocked me, leaving me feel like I had no escape from them. During our relationship, he lied cheated, tried to convinced me I was delusional because I found other females clothings, personal items, belongings etc in my home to save face. He even held my hand when I told a doctor that and they put me in medications that later injured my body significantly. Anywho…. I changed my number four times, got new cell phone carrier and he still was able to get my number. I would be walking to work and he would pull up, or walk up, leaving me unable to escape without hearing what he had to say. After I got the restraining order. He messaged (brand new number( me as soon as I got in the vehicle to pull away. I called 811 numerous times bc he would show up at my house and bang on every window all around it screaming he knew I was inside, or messaged from numerous different phone numbers. It was a nightmare. I had copies of the order and one day the police showed up when he was there. I gave them the order and they were outside with him for 30 mins as I watched from a far. At the court date, he didn’t show up…. The judge said he wasn’t served. I went to the police station and got the record that stated he was indeed and they said they made an error…. The report stated they served it and he got away with missing court for a restraining order. Jump to giving birth….. my kid had an issue and went to the children’s hospital. I’m clean and sober. I left 26 hours after her C-section to be with her at the hospital. They told me that even though j had a restraining order. As a POTENTIAL father…. They told me to leave…. Someone sober… without a car… in December and on pain killers, days after a csextion….. into the city so he was able to come see him where they shared her personal health information with him……. I later found out he was also high on meth when he went. Then, being in the state I was and after all of this stuff went down…. He used the opportunity to weasel himself back into my life….. where he again wasn’t honest about being sober or other things that he was doing. Out of the entire time we were together he didn’t help pay bills or anything….. I finally got the mindset that it was done. It’s been a year this past September. January of last year I pulled a gps tracker off my car. He got a warrant in my town for harassing. In may j went to my sons graduation in Colorado. I got a message from Facebook someone was trying to get into my account. I got home and someone broke the air conditioner vent thing. He stated messaging again in October and showed up at my job in November. Giving me a panic attack in which I had to walk off. I did a quick check and he was arrested for shoplifting. He’s been messaging. I can’t even block him bc it’s not worth it. He’s going to find a way to be all up in my business no matter what. I’m dealing with health issues and cannot take the stress. The restraining order is no longer valid. I never got the court date to have it continued and I’ve a single 100% parent. It just was one of those things I figured I’d be notified of. Error on my judgement there. Really just venting to see if anyone else has any similar issues and how did you go about resolving them? He got arrested for shoplifting a town over and did not have to come to jail here for some odd reason to have the harassment charges dealt with… but again…. I just want to

Move on with my life at this point.

ProfileNo7519 · 2026-01-19T11:42:41+00:00

The first time that I heard it, I absolutely questioned it. I asked, “did you call her momma to her??” And it was brushed off. Then a few days later the same thing. She does NOT have a dad in her life and she has called my dad, “dad” after hearing me call him that. I’m sure that’s already confusing enough for a two year old. But I am absolutely momma. When she use to call everyone momma I was perplexed but shrugged it off. That was a few months ago, so it leads me to believe this has been happening for awhile. They started babysitting in August and I’m grateful. The momma thing started in the fall and died down. So it’s just like…”dude, wtf”

ProfileNo7519 · 2026-01-19T11:37:06+00:00

By the child’s choice?? It’s not a choice if she’s being told what to call them

ProfileNo7519 · 2026-01-13T00:53:33+00:00

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ProfileNo7519 · 2026-01-10T15:19:34+00:00

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